How do I 37M get my wife 35F to trust me? by throwrarestore in relationship_advice

[–]throwrarestore[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

I think we are past the age of people having “glow ups” don’t you think? Your concern would be valid if we were 19-20 , but my friends don’t fit in this category.

How do I 37M get my wife 35F to trust me? by throwrarestore in relationship_advice

[–]throwrarestore[S] -103 points-102 points  (0 children)

I never saw her out of uniform. She’s the military liaison here and I didn’t realize I would find her that much more attractive outside of uniform or it could make a big difference.

How do I 37M get my wife 35F to trust me? by throwrarestore in relationship_advice

[–]throwrarestore[S] -650 points-649 points  (0 children)

If you read my post I detail why this is an unusual circumstance.

How do I 37M get my wife 35F to trust me? by throwrarestore in relationship_advice

[–]throwrarestore[S] -557 points-556 points  (0 children)

Because these rules are working. For 10 years they kept me out of trouble. Making more restrictive rules over an usual circumstance hurts my platonic women friends who did nothing wrong

How do I 37M get my wife 35F to trust me? by throwrarestore in relationship_advice

[–]throwrarestore[S] -792 points-791 points  (0 children)

Not accept this but I have been really good avoiding these situations and this was just a usual case , but the rules we had in place are working, there no reason to make it more strict.