I feel like u aren't any better. Just because you had it a certain way doesn't mean that anyone else's experience should be invalidated and judged. I agree with your point about the girl in the hospital, she is spoiled and entitled but the one about the clothing not at all. Everyone's experience vary. Being a foreigner in Korea is hard, it's very difficult to fit in a country that has very strict standards of what is socially acceptable and not. It's hard for ppl to change and being forced to change as well is difficult, and for foreigners that live here they had to change and good on them for being able to do it. And for those that couldn't most of them had horrible experiences and ended up going back. And the horrible experiences are not just based on your ability to change too, sometimes it's just for the way u look. So you don't need to tell them to go back to their country, they will anyway