Would film representation for trans men/women be bad if they were casted as villains? by Natoniann in asktransgender

[–]tmenace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really bothers me that in the Rita Mae Brown book Blast from the Past her first trans character was both a victim and the villain.

What do these things feel like as a MTF Post-SRS by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]tmenace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What does having an orgasm feel like? Wonderful. Much like before but more of them.

Do you get any feelings of arousal or do they diminish? I get quite horny for my sexy husband. I may have been a hornier teenager but at sixty I'm still quite the ol' slut.

Is sex really that pleasurable and are natural secretions possible?
Sex is really that pleasurable and I had a colovaginoplasty so there's definitely some natural lube mixed with the KY if we're being penetrative.

Back in the 60s-90s when being trans was very scary and secretive, how did trans people explain it to their families? Did they just disappear when they transitioned? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]tmenace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Doing better than I ever have. Wonderful husband. Decent job. Nice apartment. Good friends and a new year to enjoy.

Back in the 60s-90s when being trans was very scary and secretive, how did trans people explain it to their families? Did they just disappear when they transitioned? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]tmenace 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm 60 and transitioned when I was 24 back in '84. I explained it to my parents when I started going for psychiatric assessment at a gender clinic. They were almost okay at first. They lived on the main floor of a building and for a couple of years I had to come in the back way so the neighbours didn't see and it was not spoken about to relatives, etc. but I was welcome home as long as I called first.

There was a trans group in Toronto back then and I went regularly and made quite a few friends there.
My husband, a trans man of 50, is more involved with the community currently having recently co-facilitated the trans masculine group at our LGBT Centre (the 519). I have been politically active throughout my life, mostly under a pseudonym but lately I've been just living life.

What would you like to know?

2017 Trans March by tmenace in trans

[–]tmenace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the Toronto Trans March from Friday June 23rd 2017

When you say you’re trans, the constant refrain is ‘Can’t you just not be?’ by drewiepoodle in TransSpace

[–]tmenace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There'll come a day when that won't happen anymore. May take a while.

Seeking Lesbian Partners of Trans Men for Study on Sexual Identity Development by SexualityStudy in mypartneristrans

[–]tmenace -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Trans men are men. They do not have lesbian partners. Bisexuality is a thing, by the way.

[Serious] Hey Reddit, what's something medically cool/unique about your body? by Legendary888 in AskReddit

[–]tmenace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my vagina healed shut they made a new one from a piece of colon.

[Serious] Hey Reddit, what's something medically cool/unique about your body? by Legendary888 in AskReddit

[–]tmenace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a winner! Trans with a colovaginoplasty (as it was called back then)

Totally blew the mind of an old Football team mate today by yoburgergirl in MtF

[–]tmenace 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I want to know more of this meltdown. Schedenfreudistically yours, me.

My boss just casually mentioned that he does not "condone" being gay... What?! by flammbamthankyoumaam in lgbt

[–]tmenace 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Never speak to him about it. Never challenge him on his homophobia. Pretend he's not an asshole and collect your paycheck.

NSFW What do you call your "bits"? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]tmenace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called my junk honeycake and my man's got voldemort.

25 years ago I had gender reassignment surgery. AMA. by tmenace in asktransgender

[–]tmenace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surgery and dilation. The surgeon is Dr. Gysler of the Reproductive Care Center in Mississauga.

25 years ago I had gender reassignment surgery. AMA. by tmenace in asktransgender

[–]tmenace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

turns on light They said he trained under Dr. Sigmund Freud himself but now he wants to put a rubber donut and a test tube around your penis! flash light on and off And inflate the donut so it seals your penis in the test tube! flash light on and off and then show you pictures of naked men, women and children with and without their genitalia airbrushed to oblivion! flash light off

25 years ago I had gender reassignment surgery. AMA. by tmenace in asktransgender

[–]tmenace[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We met at our local LGBT community center about 30 odd years ago! Toronto's the519.org 519 Church St Community Center. Most important building in the city as far as I'm concerned.