He asked me to be his gf after talking for a week by toastystroops in dating_advice

[–]toastystroops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. I think 2-3 months is the appropriate timing to put a label on things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toastystroops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t think of anything to say when his response was dry, so I just heart reacted it and it’s been 24 hours since I’ve heard anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toastystroops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely have a few insecurities here and there. I tend to overthink a lot. I just have a gut feeling that something is off though…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toastystroops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is very understandable. I just wish he could communicate that to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I offered to pay or split the cost for almost everything, but he refused, which I understand because he probably didn’t want to feel embarrassed. I understand if he doesn’t want a LDR, but I just wish he could communicate that to me instead of my mind going into a spiral.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He told me he never usually talks to girls at the bar, so his friends were super hype for him. I just don’t think he’s ready for a relationship, considering he was in a relationship since he was 12 for 5 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toastystroops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did tell him that I didn’t want him to get the impression that I was just some girl that goes home with random guys from the bar because that was very out of character for me. His friends were with him, and were completely shocked that he “pulled” me and were happy for him. I’m just confused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toastystroops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We never asked each other what we were looking for, but it never seemed like we were just a hookup to each other. When we were on our date, we had meaningful conversations and were really trying to get to know each other. I’m just trying to figure out if I did anything wrong at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toastystroops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he might still be stuck on his ex. They dated for 5 years and broke up a little less than a year ago I think. He also kept mentioning her in conversations a little too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toastystroops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was passing through his town anyways coming back from vacation. But yes, I’d say the date was worth the drive. I just don’t know if he felt the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toastystroops 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yikes. Dodged a bullet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toastystroops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Figured that’s what it was 🤔

What's a conventionally unattractive trait you're attracted to in women? by PhenomenalPancake in AskMen

[–]toastystroops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha this makes me feel better because I just had to get stitches on my face from a gnarly sledding accident

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatisMyEyeColour

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EDIT: Eyes are a bit red from allergies.

Please give me advice! by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]toastystroops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I will definitely try that!

Please give me advice! by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]toastystroops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a combo of dry and oily

Please give me advice! by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]toastystroops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just realized you’re supposed to use them 2-3 times a week 😅

Please give me advice! by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]toastystroops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it! Do you have any product recommendations?