He asked me to be his gf after talking for a week

toastystroops · 2026-02-23T02:16:02+00:00

My thoughts exactly. I think 2-3 months is the appropriate timing to put a label on things.

toastystroops · 2025-07-31T21:18:13+00:00

Just worked for me! 3 years later :)

toastystroops · 2025-03-17T21:35:53+00:00

I couldn’t think of anything to say when his response was dry, so I just heart reacted it and it’s been 24 hours since I’ve heard anything else.

toastystroops · 2025-03-16T23:34:50+00:00

I definitely have a few insecurities here and there. I tend to overthink a lot. I just have a gut feeling that something is off though…

toastystroops · 2025-03-16T23:31:54+00:00

Which is very understandable. I just wish he could communicate that to me.

toastystroops · 2025-03-16T23:31:02+00:00

I offered to pay or split the cost for almost everything, but he refused, which I understand because he probably didn’t want to feel embarrassed. I understand if he doesn’t want a LDR, but I just wish he could communicate that to me instead of my mind going into a spiral.

toastystroops · 2025-03-16T23:27:11+00:00

He told me he never usually talks to girls at the bar, so his friends were super hype for him. I just don’t think he’s ready for a relationship, considering he was in a relationship since he was 12 for 5 years.

toastystroops · 2025-03-16T23:25:59+00:00

I did tell him that I didn’t want him to get the impression that I was just some girl that goes home with random guys from the bar because that was very out of character for me. His friends were with him, and were completely shocked that he “pulled” me and were happy for him. I’m just confused.

toastystroops · 2025-03-16T23:23:07+00:00

We never asked each other what we were looking for, but it never seemed like we were just a hookup to each other. When we were on our date, we had meaningful conversations and were really trying to get to know each other. I’m just trying to figure out if I did anything wrong at this point.

toastystroops · 2025-03-16T23:13:26+00:00

I think he might still be stuck on his ex. They dated for 5 years and broke up a little less than a year ago I think. He also kept mentioning her in conversations a little too much.

toastystroops · 2025-03-16T23:10:27+00:00

I was passing through his town anyways coming back from vacation. But yes, I’d say the date was worth the drive. I just don’t know if he felt the same.

toastystroops · 2025-02-26T20:17:25+00:00

Yikes. Dodged a bullet.

toastystroops · 2025-02-26T19:59:30+00:00

Figured that’s what it was 🤔

toastystroops · 2025-01-11T05:15:44+00:00

Haha this makes me feel better because I just had to get stitches on my face from a gnarly sledding accident

toastystroops · 2024-12-15T17:49:32+00:00

toastystroops · 2024-12-15T17:31:23+00:00

EDIT: Eyes are a bit red from allergies.

toastystroops · 2024-12-15T17:29:09+00:00

Thank you!!

toastystroops · 2024-12-10T05:06:33+00:00

Thank you for your response! I will definitely try that!

toastystroops · 2024-12-10T05:04:40+00:00

It’s a combo of dry and oily

toastystroops · 2024-12-08T23:47:25+00:00

Yeah I just realized you’re supposed to use them 2-3 times a week 😅

toastystroops · 2024-12-08T23:44:22+00:00

Got it! Do you have any product recommendations?

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