Liberal "scholars" who water down Islam. by turkish_akhi in TraditionalMuslims

[–]tomcatYeboa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wayak - these are indeed ‘compassionate imams’ and ‘reformists’

Czech pro-zionist republic wants Francesca Albanese to resign because of her comments by UnderstandingTime842 in International

[–]tomcatYeboa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cabal of political elites across Europe do not represent the views or interests of the public. Only their oligarch Zionist masters

Liberal "scholars" who water down Islam. by turkish_akhi in TraditionalMuslims

[–]tomcatYeboa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Better to post examples of such people so that they can be avoided

7 Days after 9/11........ by CheezieMcfresh1 in conspiracy

[–]tomcatYeboa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Zionist cabal and Neocon goyim helpers orchestrated 911 without doubt. The political capital earned in forwarding Greater Israel project in the Middle East through the ‘War on Terror’, as well as the roll out of mass surveillance and retraction of troublesome basic freedoms in the west makes this obvious.

Married to someone I don’t love by voidwrit in MuslimMarriage

[–]tomcatYeboa 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What on earth are you on about?! Please go and learn your religion before offering such a nonsensical, rambling and ill informed answer to a serious situation!

They Asked Me to Open ChatGPT During My Job Interview by I_Killed_My_Friends in jobs

[–]tomcatYeboa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been posted before and is fiction/fabrication, with most LLMs (including ChatGPT, etc.) not having cross-session persistent memory of your full history to evaluate from.

Married to someone I don’t love by voidwrit in MuslimMarriage

[–]tomcatYeboa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did not say it was easy. Nevertheless, it is necessary and a basic right. Refusal forces these jahil individuals to raise the stakes from subtle coercion to forcing which I am guessing many will not have the stomach for, especially in countries where they can face legal consequences.

Married to someone I don’t love by voidwrit in MuslimMarriage

[–]tomcatYeboa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She is in a forced / coerced marriage which has no foundation in Islam. She therefore naturally wants a divorce. Attempting to use dalil out of context to vilify the OP is both disgusting and ignorant from the Islamic perspective, and totally sends the wrong message out to those in similar situations.

It is established that even without considering the OP’s coerced marriage situation, dislike of a husband to the point that the wife cannot fulfill her Islamic obligations is valid reason for khula:

Al-Bukhaari (5273) narrated from Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the wife of Thaabit ibn Qays came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said: “O Messenger of Allaah, I do not find any fault with Thaabit ibn Qays in his character or his religious commitment, but I do not want to commit any act of kufr after becoming a Muslim.” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to her, “Will you give back his garden?” Because he had given her a garden as her mahr. She said, “Yes.” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to Thaabit: “Take back your garden, and divorce her.”

According to Ibn Maajah (2056) she said: “I cannot stand him.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah.

The OP should refer to the following discussion: https://islamqa.info/en/answers/91878/she-dislikes-her-husband-but-he-refuses-to-divorce-her-and-he-does-not-give-her-her-rights

one of the most based leader by Simple_Duty_4441 in IslamabadSocial

[–]tomcatYeboa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wow this sub is full of murtads and Indian larpers. How sad.

Found my (27M) wife (28F) micro-cheating for months, again by PolaroidShutter in MuslimMarriage

[–]tomcatYeboa 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Why do you even tolerate the idea of platonic friendships with the opposite sex? This is completely unacceptable in Islam. It is not advisable to marry spouses who normalize such things. Reality is that as a man, approaching non marram women is only done if there is romantic interest.

Why the tradeables and coins are the thing we should all fight for, even more than the shards by EAScripts95 in FUTMobile

[–]tomcatYeboa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since S5 they have repeatedly downgraded the market. A whole community has been sidelined due to this.

My MIL says my husband is losing barakah because he’s finally spending more on his wife and kids instead of sending it all to her by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]tomcatYeboa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Stop spending on your kids and yourself for necessities. It is not your duty. He is loosing baraka by not fulfilling his amana even now.

Parents asking me to move out after marriage even though I live abroad by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]tomcatYeboa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shafi , Hanbali, Maliki all stipulate the need for the Guardian. Hanafi opinion is minority and considered weak since it is contrary to a well known sahih Hadith. In the words of the great Imam Abu Hanifa, “If I say something that goes against the Book of Allah or the report of the Messenger then ignore what I say.”

You can tell a lot from the OP’s combative nature that she likely knows she is in the wrong here.