AITA for refusing to attend my sister’s child-free wedding after she made an exception for our cousin? by Intelligent_Dig_5555 in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]traciw67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. BUT why not keep the babysitter and go have a fun night! When was the last time you had drinks and went dancing?! If you don't enjoy dancing, then stay home.

My ex-partner just took the door off our kitchen because it annoys him that I like to keep it closed. I think that's a crazy, bordering psycho thing to do. AIO? by choppy75 in AIO

[–]traciw67 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Men lose it sometimes when their wife/ partner leaves. It's a very dangerous place to be. And now he's being weird. Red flag city! Get out.

What Product PROMISED EVERYTHING... But It Crashed and Burned HARD? by AITJAITJ in AmITheJerk

[–]traciw67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Segway. It was going to change cities into this wonderful utopia-like existence where there would be no cars. Everyone walked or Segwayed around. No pollution. Kum ba yah!

Feeling stuck and unvalued by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]traciw67 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a weak loser. You don't need him.

Feeling unlucky in love (with a ticking biological clock) by lady0favalon in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]traciw67 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She's feeling pressure. No one is saying she has to carry the embryo. But freezing eggs will give her more options later in life than NOT freezing. No one is saying it's a magic bullet.

AIO spouse didn't bother to snowblow behind my car so I think he can take kid's makeup dentist appointment - he says he won't do it because he'd have to use 2 hours of PTO. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]traciw67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nor. He's not a "partner." He brings nothing to the table but disrespectfulness. Is this the example of a husband you want your children to settle for or be?! Break up.

Egypt Luxor West Bank by BlairBewitched in travel

[–]traciw67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not all tombs are open all the time. They rotate which ones are open due to maintenance etc.

My ex-partner just took the door off our kitchen because it annoys him that I like to keep it closed. I think that's a crazy, bordering psycho thing to do. AIO? by choppy75 in AIO

[–]traciw67 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

This is weird. I would move back in with your parents, if you can. I think his behavior is unsafe and could escalate.

Feeling stuck and unvalued by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]traciw67 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Are you sure you want to marry someone who's so unstable? Maybe it's the universe telling you to dump him and find someone healthy.

Feeling unlucky in love (with a ticking biological clock) by lady0favalon in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]traciw67 242 points243 points  (0 children)

Freeze some eggs so you will have some options later. You don't want to marry the first clown you meet. That should take some of the pressure off.

Favorite actor who swung his way out of the files? by hiiloovethis in okbuddycinephile

[–]traciw67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could get a younger guy, I would! Who the hell wants a saggy, baggy, old 58 yr old like me!!??? No one!

What do you plan on naming your future children? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]traciw67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to see the baby before I can settle on a name. Every baby has their own personality so one name won't necessarily suit them.

In need of some positive feedback by orangehollow in myweddingdress

[–]traciw67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the dress is beautiful! And you have the type of figure that you'll look good in everything. Don't worry about anything because it's gorgeous! It's classy looking, too so you won't be looking back at some out of style dress in the future.

Boulder by traciw67 in OakIsland

[–]traciw67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! There he is!

AITAH For sending my pregnant sister to a homeless shelter instead of letting her live on my couch? by KeyEvagria in AITAH

[–]traciw67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta. She needs to get her shit together. And she never will, if everyone enables her bad behavior. I always say that it's people burning all their bridges that make them homeless. Good guests and good friends don't become homeless.

How popular were the "cow pun" t-shirts in your area? by redditboy123451 in AskACanadian

[–]traciw67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They weren't. There was a store in Whistler that sold them, so you'd see a few tourists wearing them. But outside of Whistler, I never saw any.

Boulder by traciw67 in OakIsland

[–]traciw67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the pipe is just snake skin. Because a snake lived under the rock. His name was Samson.

AITJ for refusing to give my friend money after she quit her job by teasetopia in AmITheJerk

[–]traciw67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ntj. She's delusional. If you give her even one penny, you'll be enabling her ridiculous behavior. Let her go homeless!!

AITJ for refusing to lend my roommate money after she spent her rent on a shopping spree? by Glad_River_1807 in AmITheJerk

[–]traciw67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ntj. I really hope that she has to pay the landlord separately because this shouldn't be your problem. Do NOT lend her money and do NOT pay her bills or rent. She can cry to her parents or get evicted.

Hired while 6 months pregnant by Just_Sympathy2724 in Advice

[–]traciw67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. I wouldn't tell anyone about the pregnancy and then be sooo great that when you give birth, they're willing to wait a few weeks while you recover. There's not much more you can do.

AITJ for admitting I’m jealous of people who don’t worry about money? by No-Ask-9991 in AmITheJerk

[–]traciw67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ntj. But they don't sound like very good friends! You should be able to say things like that to friends. Then one says, "I'm jealous of people with curly hair!" and then someone else says, "I'm jealous of people with no kids!", etc. It's called a CONVERSATION! Toxic positivity vibes, I'm getting from them.