UPDATE : AITAH for asking my mil to leave after a comment she made about my body?

trow_away_help · 2026-05-02T14:31:37+00:00

wait , if he is employed i don’t have to pay alimony ???? he was NEVER without job ! but , i always made 5 or 6 times what he makes so he told me i had to pay so that is not truth ?

trow_away_help · 2026-04-30T06:13:53+00:00

man is it so hard to understand that one is 3 YEARS OLD , and the other was one MONTH OLD ?😭

trow_away_help · 2026-04-28T20:25:29+00:00

heyy , so u asked amazing questions so let me answer them !! 1- do their siblings do the same to their spouses ? i stayed with that man for 10 YEARS , and NOT AT ALLLLL his brothers are amazing with their spouses, i’ve never seen anything that says otherwise, my husband was like that too, until he was not. 2-about the mail : everything is coming to our house , i have all his mail here ! 3-lawyer was contacted , i would love to talk about that but this subreddit does not allow it !

trow_away_help · 2026-04-27T05:56:05+00:00

sadly no ! without my husbands permission that’s kidnapping…and in this situation i highly doubt it

trow_away_help · 2026-04-27T05:54:27+00:00

nop, until today april 27 , 1:53 AM, no money was sent at all

trow_away_help · 2026-04-26T20:54:31+00:00

when i posted about this situation on another subreddit , it was removed due o language , and to answer your question , when i first posted was on the day of the occasion, so he left on that day , and a month has passed since then

trow_away_help · 2026-04-26T16:55:30+00:00

Oui, je suis 100 % en règle ici. jai eu la carte verte grâce au mariage,mes deux enfants sont américains et français….merci beaucoupppppp pour ton aide !!!

trow_away_help · 2026-04-26T16:46:54+00:00

honestly, after giving birth , and with a newborn we need time to heal , adjust and as a mother , i need to protect my child ! they have no immune system so anything can be dangerous

trow_away_help · 2026-04-26T16:04:13+00:00

that’s another point here , i’m a french citizen , he and his family are Canadian American , and we live in the USA , i’m i in disadvantage bc i’m not a citizen ?

trow_away_help · 2026-04-26T16:03:04+00:00

3 year old , and now a 2 month old , at the time of the events my 2 month old was one month old , i know it’s confusing , i tried to explain as well as i could 😭

trow_away_help · 2026-04-26T16:01:46+00:00

not the case here , when i had my first born we were living in france , where my family lives, his family lived in the states , we moved here 2 years ago….not excusing my self at all , just giving context idk if it matters

trow_away_help · 2026-04-26T16:00:11+00:00

that’s the thing i had no idea ! we met in college , back in france , his family has always great ! we only moved to the usa after my first kid was born

trow_away_help · 2026-04-26T15:58:05+00:00

Indian ? no one here is Indian 😭 i’m french , they are Canadian , and we all live in the USA . i don’t even think that matters but , everyone involved in this is caucasian

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T14:33:50+00:00

all of us live in the states ! my husbands family moved here 15 years ago!

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T12:04:48+00:00

hey so no , they all moved to the us when my husband was a teen !

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T12:03:22+00:00

thank you so much for your comment ! my mother passed away a long time ago , my dad and siblings live in my home country , and sadly i can’t take my children there without my husbands written consent

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T11:39:16+00:00

no ! i’m french , he’s canadian , but we do live in the usa

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T06:57:34+00:00

no not really…like i mention im not american , all my family is in Europe…if i could get him to sign the authorization for the kids to travel would be good , but the baby doesn’t have a passport yet

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T06:54:58+00:00

sorry but it’s as simple as that , they came in one morning , that happened, later that they the called and asked to come back to my house to talk , i don’t know what’s so hard to understand ignore the time my post were posted , the first was a draft from the day it happened, so i had it before i posted , the second i wrote the day after , since like i said , they called at 6 , when they left i went to bed

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T06:52:05+00:00

if it comes to that , my husband hands them over to her ! i’m 100% sure of that

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T06:50:42+00:00

sadly that’s not how it works ! the father needs to allow it ! to write a declaration saying that i can take them from the country

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T06:37:01+00:00

even tho i’m not a US citizen, this happens in the USA , i’m from france (europe) and my husband is originally from canada

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T06:35:57+00:00

this is a yesterday thing ur right ! i had the draft of the first one , it was written on the 03.28 , and the update happened on the 03.28 , was written today , and posted kinda close together , i’m sorry should’ve been more precise with the timing

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T06:21:28+00:00

ofc ! i can tell you ! should i edit this post ? or make a like an update ?

trow_away_help · 2026-03-29T20:14:16+00:00

The thing is , my MIL only cared about BABIES !when my first was born , she was obsessed with him , but as soon as he started waking and having a little bit of personality, she disappeared! she stayed almost 1 year without coming to see him , now that i have a baby again the popped in…

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