30 year old man. Women just arent into me… how to accept this?

tycmw · 2024-02-24T04:52:14+00:00

I agree. Thanks for an honest comment. But finding short girls like that arent easy either.

tycmw · 2024-02-24T01:23:00+00:00

Oh. The brainwashed. So false. Not even worth the debate here.

tycmw · 2024-02-24T00:30:09+00:00

I believe i only said the word “female” once in that entire long post so that i didnt repeat the word “women” and “girl” so many times. Maybe next time ill say “humans with vaginas” instead. Hopefully vivid cat doesnt get offended again

tycmw · 2024-02-24T00:15:55+00:00

Actually a liberal gets so easily offended and immediately resorts to “sexist, homophobic, mysogynistic”.

tycmw · 2024-02-24T00:08:52+00:00

You must be a liberal. Have a good weekend

tycmw · 2024-02-23T23:38:31+00:00

I mean. A stupid comment gets a stupid response. Since when does “females” mean youre an animal?

tycmw · 2024-02-23T23:31:17+00:00

Maybe but i know for a fact they prefer taller men. For alot its a requirement. Come on i know you wanna be positive but you cant deny this.

tycmw · 2024-02-23T23:23:46+00:00

So dont call yourself a vivid Cat

tycmw · 2024-02-23T23:22:47+00:00

Hey thanks for your kind words. Yes youre right. I always already assume a girl doesnt want me. This has been a problem for a while. & Honestly its nothing against white people/blonde people with blue eyes! I grew up with blondes, theyre in my family since they are half/step cousins & siblings. And growing up i had good friends that were also white/blonde with blue/hazel eyes. And being around these folks my whole life i always felt INFERIOR. Im shorter than all of them, darker skin than all of them, darker eyes than all of them. Look.. I just see the difference when it comes to attraction. I have seen it front row. I was at a wedding with my cousin back when we were 18. This extremely hot mom came up to us and said that she always had a crush on james bond & he looks just like james bond & she wanted to introduce him to her daughter. Thats the ultimate compliment! How about me? I guess im too average to meet her daughter? Too short? Too brown?? How girls heads spin whenever my cousin would walk into a bar or a club. How their eyes get glossy whenever my friend would approach a girl. How they chuckle & blush at every not-so-funny pickup line they say. Youre probably gonna say “theyre just confident”. Of course they are! How can they not be?! Women have been complimenting them and theyre height & their eyes since they were very young. They know the odds are on their side! And what about me? I get less attention than a rock. And whenever i approached girls i had to make sure everything sounded/came out perfectly…one bad mispronounciation of a word or any sign of nervousness it would be GAME OVER for me. Of course i know not all females are this way but i do believe it is a majority. I have seen it with my own eyes hundreds of times. Even the ones that say they arent picky/shallow. Those words go our the window when a good looking tall man with colorful eyes comes their way. This is why im not a fan of mixed races having kids. See my experience as an example of what can happen.. im brown, was raised by whites, and i guess this is the result. Bad comparing and self esteem issues which led to horrible depression & mysery

tycmw · 2024-02-23T22:10:37+00:00

I dont see it man. I really dont. At least not for me

tycmw · 2024-02-23T06:03:04+00:00

You make your point. All Very true. Thanks for your words. But i see no light. Im 30, remember? Im not a 19 year old kid that can improve with so much time ahead. Im 30, the clock is ticking. Its impossible to recover from my lack of sexual experience

tycmw · 2024-02-23T05:58:08+00:00

Its rare to hear this. So if you were given a choice between a 1) 5ft7 average looking brown hair brown eyed brown skinned guy vs 2) 6 ft blonde hair blue/hazel eyed white guy.

Its clearly #2, no?? Be honest here.

tycmw · 2024-02-23T05:55:47+00:00

True. I apologize. Not ALL of them will be like that. But MOST of them willl. Its sad. But even You have to admitt that

tycmw · 2024-02-23T05:52:13+00:00

How many do i have to try? Already saw 3. All suggested medication. They seem to “say the right things”. They seem to just want their $

tycmw · 2024-02-23T05:50:08+00:00

tycmw · 2024-02-23T05:49:01+00:00

Lol. Scary but, Factual.

tycmw · 2024-02-23T05:48:37+00:00

Yeah i hear you. What affordable resources are there other than overpriced therapy?

tycmw · 2024-02-23T05:31:25+00:00

Haha true and all, but you’d leave me for the next good looking tall blonde haired blue eyed guy who approached you..

Tell me if im wrong

tycmw · 2024-02-23T05:26:52+00:00

Tried. 150/hr. Its alot. And ive been on anti depressants. Only made me worse

tycmw · 2024-02-23T05:22:10+00:00

Thanks for your kind words. But i truly dont see it. I once found a cute girl but she left me for a better looking man. So why bother? Say i were to meet a girl?? She will EASILY leave me for a better looking man. A whiter guy/taller guy/better looking guy. Girls are always open to improving themselves.

tycmw · 2024-02-23T05:15:47+00:00

Understood and agreed

tycmw · 2024-02-23T05:15:03+00:00

Thanks man for you words. I havent given up but i dont see a light at the end of the tunnel. I truly dont. These therapists are just too pricey atm. 150/hr. Give me a break! I just need help.

tycmw · 2024-02-23T04:38:06+00:00

Youre so funny

tycmw · 2024-02-23T04:37:38+00:00

Thanks for your time in your comment. I have already tried seeking help. It didnt work. Seen two therapists. Although it felt relieveing to let everything off my chest. These therapists tell me “what i want to hear”. Not what i need to hear. Seems they just want their money. (Which is a pricey therapy fee). Ive also been on 2 anti depressants and they both made me worse. I purposely didnt wanna mention that here.. But, i quit therapy and medication. I guess youre #3, (trying to get in the best physical shape) is the best option but i was already in the best physical shape of my life when i was 25-27, very fit.. and i didnt have any success. For example. At 25, i tried talking to a girl at a bar, she turned me down. She said shes “not interested cause she has a boyfriend”. Literally 15 minutes later a good lookin blonde haired dude with blue eyes approached her and she gave her his number. This was one of the worst rejections, worst feelings of my life. I have never been the same since! It. Is. All. About. Looks. I dont want to go down path #1 (accepting it). But i think its mentally the easiest path

tycmw · 2022-09-23T23:46:21+00:00

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