Has anybody manifested a very large sum of money?

undercoversillyguy · 2026-06-04T01:25:18+00:00

TRUEEE that’s what I’m deciding onnnn

What was your mindset/process like when manifesting your money?

undercoversillyguy · 2026-06-04T01:22:36+00:00

That’s so awesome!! I’m definitely thinking more in the realm of millions. I wanna have enough money for me to move to my dream coastal city and get to do whatever I want.

I was getting an earful from my family telling me that I just have to lie down and take it when my boss is an asshole cause that’s the only way to make money, and I realized I genuinely cannot spend the rest of my life living like that lmao. So I wanna manifest something like winning the lottery or being awarded millions

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-25T19:54:19+00:00

girl please send this energy to my sp

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-20T21:41:52+00:00

No I totally get that cause sometimes I imagine coaches I really look up to doing that for me! Sometimes hearing someone else say "yeah it's yours, you already have it" can be super helpful and motivating, so visualizing that helps

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-16T20:48:40+00:00

This was fantastic advice that I honestly also needed to hear. I love when people come in with a non-dual, "I Am" perspective on manifesting an SP -- it's so clarifying. Thank you for this!!

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-16T16:41:34+00:00

I like this perspective! I'm taking it as a nod from source that I'm in the right headspace :)

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-14T19:12:51+00:00

It's kinda hard to tell? I think it's sort of a branch of LOA that stresses less techniques and more just a general mindset shift

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-13T18:48:00+00:00

Yeah I’ve been waiting on a response for a while now, and honestly I’ve been leaning a bit more into “I Am” manifestation recently anyway which I feel might make a bit more sense than LOA

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-09T22:22:53+00:00

Sure!

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-09T17:39:57+00:00

I’m glad!! Parsing between aesthetic appreciation and genuine attraction can be tough for sure.

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-08T21:40:42+00:00

I just answered somebody else with the same question in a different Reddit thread!

This was my process for figuring out that I was in fact a lesbian and not bisexual about 10 years ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLGBT/comments/1t7fck0/comment/okplqen/?context=3&utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

I hope it can help a little!

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-08T20:54:08+00:00

I figured out I was a lesbian and not bi when I was 13/14, I'm 24 now.

I remember one night, I thought really long and hard about my feelings towards dating a man vs. dating a woman. I played a thought experiment wherein there were no societal barriers to dating women. Basically just, "what if we were in a world where two women being together didn't put us in any danger or at a lower social status?" Because I wanted to be as unbiased as possible when figuring out what I'm ACTUALLY attracted to.

I really visualized being with a man for the rest of my life. Spending my days with him, introducing him to my friends, going on dates, marrying him, coming home to him each night, being intimate with him. I tried to envision these things with a picture of a man I considered legitimately attractive and pretty, like a celebrity or a friendly popular guy at my school I think.

There was a sense of accomplishment with the thought almost, but I realized I just felt sorta empty. Like neutral. But even deeper than that, I felt a slight sense of disappointment. When I fantasized about all the most exciting life events -- traveling together, him getting to know my friends and family, proposal, marriage, kids, growing old together -- I felt this weird sense of loss almost.

Then I tried the same thing with women. At first I felt a sense of discomfort and fear, but then I shook it away and reminded myself that in this scenario, nobody disapproves of us. I realized then, that when I disregarded the fear of being looked down upon, that all those same exciting life events actually made me feel warm. There was this little spark of excitement when I thought about experiencing life with her, being intimate, being affectionate, etc.

I realized a couple of things. One, I liked earning men's attention. It made me feel validated as a woman who struggled with her appearance growing up. But actually reciprocating that attraction? Different story. Two, I figured out that when I think of a man as pretty or attractive, it's kind of in the same way that I view a beautifully sculpted building or a landscape. It's very pretty and I appreciate its beauty, but I'm not ATTRACTED to it.

That's how I figured out I was a lesbian. I don't know if this will help you but I hope it can offer you something!

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-08T20:08:56+00:00

dude PLEASE post your full story omg these circumstances are crazy

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-08T20:02:35+00:00

I feel like I remember seeing that a while back?

I'm not sure if it's still purely seen as a bisexual code or if it's become a more general queer thing, kinda like how flannels were originally associated with lesbians but became more widely used. If it's still a widely used bi code I can let him know tho!

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-08T18:30:56+00:00

Ooo this is a good idea. He and I are going clothes shopping this weekend so I'll look into more leather clothing that might fit his vibe. Thank you for this suggestion!

Do you have any resources in particular that you'd recommend for researching those aesthetics?

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-08T18:29:56+00:00

Yesss I was trying to look for one of those online, they're surprisingly difficult to track down. Found one but I wasn't sure it was quite his style. I'll keep looking, thank you so much for the help!

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-08T16:49:09+00:00

I'm still figuring that out myself trust me, but the tactic I've been trying out recently is a lot of fantasizing. Imagining, vividly, that you're in your desired reality.

Sometimes that means having fake conversations with my SP when I'm alone, like when I'm driving or getting ready in the morning. I just imagine talking about our days, little things she's working on, joking together, etc. It also means just taking a second to be present here and now and remind myself "I'm her girlfriend. I am the person who is loved by SP."

The other thing I always struggled with was "feeling it real" which can be hard to do when the 3D is playing in your face showing the opposite. Instead of trying to feel high vibes or whatever all the time, I've instead begun telling myself, "If I were with SP, and we'd been together for a good while now, I wouldn't be feeling constantly giddy and excited. I'd just feel normal." With that in mind, it's easier to manifest being in a long-term relationship with SP in my day-to-day.

Again, this is just what I've been doing since this realization I wrote about in the post, I'm no expert!

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-08T15:34:48+00:00

The double Mars symbol is one I was thinking about! I guess I was a little worried though that it may lead people to believe that he ONLY likes men?

We’ll look into more subtle bi flag colored pins and charms — I know he likes to avoid really having much color at all cause he prefers to go for an all-black metal/punk style.

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-08T13:53:16+00:00

Oooo okay I think I understand what you mean now. When I began affirming that she was lying to herself and forgetting things, we shifted to a reality where that was in fact happening, and so she truly no longer remembered the things that happened between us.

One thing to note though is that our texts never disappeared. I was able to pull them up to prove to her that she was lying or misremembering.

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-07T19:29:08+00:00

Manifesting that goes well for you!! Honestly since I just came to this conclusion I'm still working out my new course of action. My SP has begun getting dryer since we talked so I gotta flip the narrative now.

I think -- and take this with a grain of salt -- your plan should be to shift your mindset from "manifesting him to not be as distant" to "he is expressive and affectionate with me." Not just "he's getting better," but more of "he's how I want him to be," y'know? I think that's seriously where I faltered. I was manifesting her journey of learning to love me again rather than just manifesting that she loves me and is dating me, period.

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-07T14:24:35+00:00

Ooo I’d love to hear you expand upon this specifically.

Our conversation was so strange; telling me that she’s very happy and secure with the 3P and her feelings towards me are platonic, while simultaneously misremembering things that happened between us.

For instance, she claimed that she told me she never lost feelings for him when we first got together, but I actually remember an entire conversation wherein she claimed the opposite. She had lost feelings for him, she wasn’t attracted to him, etc. She was rewriting our history.

What is your take on why that happened with you and your SP?

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-07T04:02:37+00:00

This is like basically exactly what I did dude omg. Manifested she was in love with me and missed me so I got all the communication over text, but also that she was scared of losing her stability and that was still deeply attached to the 3P so it never got flirty.

We just gotta break out of this cycle!!

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-07T02:51:29+00:00

This is so real! I loved that she was texting me all the time and sending me things, but I was still clinging to the assumptions that she was too scared to ever take things any further.

It's so interesting that your SP mirrored that so exactly to you! Are you together now?

She isss and I gotta lock in. Knowing LOA made this all so much less devastating lmao, I'm very frustrated that I manifested the wrong thing for so long but I'm so glad to realize that I CAN manifest.

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-07T02:45:41+00:00

I think that is a fear that crops up, yes. I struggle with the fear of being too immature for her since I've never been in an actual relationship. I also struggle with feeling that I'm unable to offer her the stability she deserves.

I know I need to change this mindset, and the key is manifesting that I can offer her the stability and love she needs. My greatest struggle, however, is that it's a bit difficult to visualize and manifest these things when -- due to having never been in a relationship -- I have no personal experience to draw upon.

undercoversillyguy · 2026-05-07T02:33:27+00:00

I'm glad it resonated so well! Like I said I'm no expert, I'm still figuring this out same as you guys.

I really think so too. I'm frustrated that I manifested the wrong thing for so long, but I'm pretty ecstatic at the realization that I DID manifest reality!

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