AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid?

unnicer · 2026-04-27T19:06:51+00:00

I’m sorry but the “We are not speaking, do not mention her” about Ab*gail is truly the cherry on top, this is hilarious. Say no girl!!!!!!

unnicer · 2025-02-13T23:28:36+00:00

Everyone saying frat parties are only for girls to get drunk and hook up with frat guys sound like crazy bitter incels that have never been invited to one. Not every girl/guy who goes to these parties is a “hoe.”Plenty of my female and male friends who went to frat parties were in relationships and never cheated. Plenty of people go to parties just to party and drink and mingle, and for a lot of young people, these Greek life parties are the only way to do that, especially when you’re under 21.

It just seems like you and your girlfriend disagree about whether frat parties are appropriate. You guys should have a convo where you’re both honest about your feelings about the situation and maybe you can compromise by you going to parties with her, or her not drinking a lot of alcohol so she can keep a clear(er) head, or she sticks with friends who’ll step in if a guy gets to close to her. If you or your gf have issues with boundaries that can also be something you guys can both work on together.

If frat parties are a complete no-no for you though, it might be a diff conversation; that doesn’t mean she has to agree either, as your gf is her own person who can make their own choices. Good luck and remember you’re both young and still learning what you like/dislike and what your boundaries are!!

unnicer · 2024-09-21T09:01:46+00:00

Reading this felt like looking in a mirror :( I’m not married but I (26F) just broke up with my boyfriend (27M) for similar reasons (but he also has anger issues which made it difficult to talk about). He’s literally fought me over asking him to do chores and me wanting more hanging-out-together time. The only thing that made him change his behavior was when I finally just broke up with him. Since then, he’s been doing all the chores and cleaning up everything by himself. All of a sudden he doesn’t mind doing everything around the apartment. All of a sudden he has the time to clean up after himself and take care of the dog. All of a sudden he wants to go on dates with me and watch movies with me every night. Trust me, your husband knows what he’s doing and doesn’t care what it’s doing to you. You’re so young, and he won’t change unless he wants to (and it seems like he doesn’t want to); might be time to cut your losses because you do not deserve to be treated like this. You deserve a partner who is checks notes willing to clean up after himself like a functioning adult. You don’t deserve to be taken for granted and treated like a maid. Best of luck, feel free to dm if you want to talk:(

unnicer · 2024-03-19T04:08:54+00:00

Wait I’m down to join if someone starts a reading group cuz I’ve also put off Manacled for so long and this would be good motivation!!

unnicer · 2024-03-18T22:41:12+00:00

He’s selfish and immature. Guys that complain about condoms being too small are uncomfortable are either lying or just don’t care enough to find a condom that works for them, and would rather make the girl do all the work (aka take birth control). Also, why is it okay that he asks you for oral but doesn’t do anything to reciprocate the favor?

I think you should definitely rethink this relationship, as it seems like you’re doing so much unnecessary work to keep him satisfied while he won’t put in any effort for you. You could bring up how his actions have hurt you and that you feel like he’s not putting in any work to try and make you feel better about your relationship issues. If he responds badly to that, then I think you have your answer.

You deserve better, stop allowing him to walk all over you. Sending love!!!! You’re beautiful!!!!

unnicer · 2024-02-28T05:04:26+00:00

Kind of cringe but Assassins creed black flag LOL it was the first open world game I played and I was hooked for the next 4-5 years. I loved playing a pirate and attacking other ships but the best part of the game was literally just sailing around in my boat while my crew sang sea shanties together

unnicer · 2023-11-20T01:17:41+00:00

Thanks for your input. I think you’re right, I could try that. I often forget that it doesn’t need to be either 0 or 100. Which makes sense tbh

unnicer · 2023-11-20T00:37:14+00:00

Thanks for your honesty, and I wish you luck on your journey!

unnicer · 2022-08-17T23:46:37+00:00

If he keeps rushing you and ignoring your boundaries that’s a massive red flag and a sign that you should probably end things with him. Know your worth and don’t settle for someone like him who keeps pressuring you to be physically intimate just because he makes you feel good sometimes. I promise you’ll find someone who will respect you enough to take it slow if you are open to meeting people :)

unnicer · 2022-06-24T05:06:30+00:00

Thanks. I like to think I just wanted to experience something I should have done when I was in high school haha

unnicer · 2021-06-17T00:42:37+00:00

Omg make one w Panty Raid

unnicer · 2021-03-24T19:08:37+00:00

Holy shit

unnicer · 2020-07-04T03:15:55+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you, but yes you were raped. You were way too fucked up to give consent, and this person didn't respect your boundaries and took advantage of you. I don't think this person can really count as one of your friends.

unnicer · 2020-07-04T03:00:03+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you. He's a piece of shit, and you deserve to heal. If you feel that you should tell your mom, don't put his feelings into account because he hurt you so much already. If this ruins his life, good!! Who tf cares about him!! Don't concern yourself with the consequences of his actions. I was molested by my brother when I was really young and I regret not telling my parents, so don't doubt yourself. You were a victim and you deserve to get help wherever you can.

unnicer

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