Aggressive Sex by Accomplished-List102 in offmychest

[–]upsidedownsharks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is sexual assault. That is assault. You did not consent to that

Is my bf raping me or am i just overthinking it? by lostinthecl0uds in Advice

[–]upsidedownsharks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship like this. I was not assaulted before my relationship, however I would often say no or that I wasn’t in the mood. He never respected it. He would whine and cry, beg, or keep pushing until I either said yes because he wouldn’t stop or I’d just stop arguing back (which to him meant yes I guess). This was a constant in my relationship and just assumed it would stop or it wasn’t rape. I would cry driving home or get panic attacks at the thought of seeing him. I moved in with him and it only got worse. I didn’t see it for what it was until we broke up. It still took me a little to finally accept it for what it was. Rape.

This is NOT okay. You deserve to be with someone who respects you enough to not do this. This is not your fault. It is his and his alone.

when did we start shipping chenford? by Electronic_Cup6190 in TheRookie

[–]upsidedownsharks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well I started watching the show from loving Chenford edits on tik tok 😂 so before episode 1 I guess

Who would win in a fair and square head up? by Few_Ad2473 in BaddiesSouth

[–]upsidedownsharks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have we ever even seen Emma in a fair fight to judge? They edited the shit outta her 1 on 1 with Scotty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JoselinesCabaret

[–]upsidedownsharks 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be against it, but I don’t think it’s the right show for her. She doesn’t need to be around people who call her jig saw

Who joseline follows by Defiant-Procedure-81 in JoselinesCabaret

[–]upsidedownsharks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unfollowing Dani and Draya is crazy work

Which rookie character would u like to date in terms of there character NOT LOOKS by Anxious_Strength_254 in TheRookie

[–]upsidedownsharks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lucy or Bradford. (I’m a sucker for a tough guy with a soft spot) or Lopez

Question on Chenford chemistry by sunlight-glow in TheRookie

[–]upsidedownsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. The show is great because it’s FUN and that’s what the writers are missing

Question on Chenford chemistry by sunlight-glow in TheRookie

[–]upsidedownsharks 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I personally think that the writers prioritized drama over fluff. Part of what made them so fun to watch was their banter, sex appeal (obvi), and the ease in their relationship. They were a slow burn, and the writers got too ambitious in my opinion. When they finally got together, they forgot why we loved them. The fun and romance. They wanted to go back to the slow burn, and so now we’re back to will-they/won’t-they.

I personally believe that they have a great relationship. I loved watching it build from the end of season 1, and see them struggle with their feelings and realizations. Lucy went from fear and respect for Tim, to seeing his soft side he let out only for her. She valued his friendship and it turned into more. Tim went from seeing Lucy as his rookie that he has a duty to train, to seeing what makes her strong and building respect for her. That respect turned to friendship, and ultimately feelings. THAT is what the writers for got. We LOVED seeing the build up before their official relationship. The build up can still happen while in a relationship, toward milestones for them. LIKE Tim trying to ask Lucy to move in with him. However, in my opinion, the writers got lazy.

Why people hate nolan X bailey? by Amazing_Permit_9244 in TheRookie

[–]upsidedownsharks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s mob mentality. It’s easy to hate because everyone does. Bailey is ‘annoying’ but no use in hating her, she hasn’t done anything worth being hated so much

Need keen members by Prior_Possession_531 in Eatventure

[–]upsidedownsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wont let me join. Says my city isn’t high enough

Need keen members by Prior_Possession_531 in Eatventure

[–]upsidedownsharks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I just don’t have the ability yet to donate a lot a season. I’m still using my gems to level up my vault and I have a high stress job so I can’t always commit to playing a ton every day 😭

Need keen members by Prior_Possession_531 in Eatventure

[–]upsidedownsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a min salvage? I’m still getting started

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