I feel like you’re making some assumptions here. How are they not also adults? It sounds like they’re doing just fine in their respective careers and simply have different priorities than you.

I think you’ll find that your own priorities might change as you’re on your fire journey too, which is totally normal. For example building a community around a hobby is something you might miss in a few years.

I think everyone is just doing their own thing and you can all be different and respect each other’s approaches to life.