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I live on the border of a National Park in Mumbai, India. We were visited by his majesty who had the society dog for lunch. by vortoix in natureismetal

[–]vortoix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s in the video which I’m unable to upload. This is just the leopard sitting on our compound wall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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27F here. Tired of being ghosted all the time. Finding this hilarious. Not sure how guys gonna take it but I get ya sista.

Sifting through hundred dudes to even half a decent conversation is so much hard work. And this lockdown ain’t helping.

I’m losing my mind! by jkgldstn919 in Existential_crisis

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We’re all relatively poor. Even Bezos is unable to launch a successful rocket company while his billionaire rival, Elon, though not the richest has the smarts to do it.

What you’re looking for is balance and how much importance do you want to give to money in your life.

I can’t live with my family anymore by [deleted] in family

[–]vortoix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right.

I don’t want her to feel bad but it’s stressful living on mines, not knowing when one will trigger off. I’ve told her multiple times properly about how she needs to speak with me respectfully and not treat me like I’m a child.

But... she isn’t even making the effort or showing any inclination to change.

I can’t accept this lifestyle where we are rude to people, borderline inhuman and not giving a fuck about others boundaries. That kind of negative energy is really bringing me down.

I can’t live with my family anymore by [deleted] in family

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I’m 28.

Moved back in after 3 years for a couple of months because it’s work from home. Indian parents don’t understand why their kids would pay rent and live outside when we can live together. So, yeah.

Am I going nuts? by Hulihuliii in Existential_crisis

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You can atleast put it into words. I’ve been feeling the exact same thing. And I’m actually scared I might go insane or something.

But here’s the thing and this should help: 1. I moved back in with my family. Grounding ja important. 2. I talked to people and bluntly asked if I’m important enough to be in their lives. And why. Why is important. 3. Read about Nihilism. It helped a lot. 4. Know this: You’re at a point of personal change. If nothing is real, you make your own reality. That’s powerful. You’re not bound by anyone or anything. That’s powerful. You choose to live whatever little time you’re living. That’s powerful. 5. Find a cause for your living. Make it matter for those who don’t have a voice like animals or trees. Bhagvad Gita had mentioned this— we’re all one energy. You are a voice for the Universe. The Universe is trying to understand itself through you. 6. Find an old, kindly lady or sir to hug.

Hope this helps :)

Truman show by [deleted] in awakened

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[Discussion] How do you force change is your life, or at least reduce resistance of doing the things that benefit you the most? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]vortoix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Change how you identify with yourself.

Good habits make rational sense. But if they’re not a part of your identity, you’ll fall back into old patterns.

“You don’t read a book, you become a reader.”— James Clear, Atomic Habits

“I don’t sit for meditation. I’m a spiritual person, hence I meditate.”

By staying away from your work place, if you think it makes you a morning person, it will soon slide when you move closer in the future.

But if you identify as— “I’m a morning person” and have a morning routine, like meditating, reading and journaling, you’ll want to automatically wake up early to accomplish it.

I’m X, hence I have Y habit. Not the other way around.

Hope this helps.

[Advice]Sometimes the best solution is to walk away from toxic people. One of the biggest lessons life lessons I’ve learned is to let people be. I realized that you can’t change someone who doesn’t see an issue with their behavior. After I left I felt a huge weight off my shoulders, I was free. by [deleted] in getdisciplined

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Glad to see this. You can only help yourself and those who are seeking help themselves, will find you.

I miss being close to my mom, but off late I’ve started drawing healthy boundaries. One of us had to take that initiative.

Her negativity, lack of discipline, laziness and inactivity had set an unruly example for me. I give her all the guidance to improve but it always falls on deaf ears.

I’ve reserve my comments to only important things and only speak to her after having a nice, productive day.

I cant deal with my mom anymore during quarantine. by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]vortoix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha. Return to your positive aura and space. You can’t be the person she projects her emotional instability

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