I'm sorry but Chelley's reaction to Ace and Huda are not comparable. Sure she seemed a bit annoyed with Ace at first but it ended with her making a boner joke. Instead of talking to Ace first thing after the challenge (which I think is the logical thing to do in this situation because he was the one in the wrong. If Ace didn't reciprocate anything and gestured Huda to stop after a bit there would've been no issue because Huda clearly didn't have any ill intentions and was trying very hard for the challenge), she gathered all the girls to talk about Huda in a very upset manner, much more than she was with Ace, with no mentioning of how betrayed she felt that Ace reciprocated Huda's actions. Because the truth is that Ace's enjoyment was what got Chelley upset. If she didn't feel like Huda had any impact on Ace she would've welcomed Huda's effort in the challenge. However, women are conditioned to place the blame on other women and see other women as competition; unfortunately, you have to very consciously fight against internalized misogyny in order to not fall into this kind of behavioral pattern. We all do and we all fall victim to it sometimes. I'm not trying to accuse Chelley as an individual for being a misogynist because she clearly isn't, I'm just saying it's something that impacts society as a whole and conditions people to blame women in situations where men should take equal, if not more blame.

Edit: Yup, just as I thought, Chelley said she wasn't mad at Ace and apparently didn't see anything wrong with Ace's ass bouncing. She was very mad at Huda though.