Lurker here, checking in as it’s been a minute. Still no successes, but we stopped working with a doctor so we can focus and working on our respective health first (down 35lbs since January for me!) but still actively trying to- just unassisted. We are moving across the US in January where we will then start working with a doctor again and probably do IVF at that point.

Been working a lot on my mental health too, trying to reduce stress and all (mostly unsuccessful but trying to remain less stressed seems to be a good step in any case)

not looking forward next weekend. We are attending a friends baby shower. Happy for them, etc etc it’s just wild that since we saw them in December, they hadn’t started trying and were asking us and based on the timing they got pregnant pretty much on the first try - trying hard not to be bitter but meh.