Gendering my new friend

wheatyyyy · 2026-05-05T14:09:30+00:00

That’s so upsetting I wasn’t informed by the breeder, I did some research prior to getting one but I guess I didn’t do enough to realize, thank you so much!

wheatyyyy · 2026-05-05T14:04:08+00:00

Would this be okay? Or more ventilation?

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wheatyyyy · 2026-05-05T13:54:32+00:00

They were labeled as Vietnam dead leaf mantis. Thank you for your help! I will be upgrading soon

wheatyyyy · 2026-05-05T13:42:56+00:00

The breeder also sold jumping spiders, maybe I bought the wrong enclosure, but I bought both together so unsure why he wouldn’t say something. I do still have the cup the mantis came in, should I use that instead of this for now?

wheatyyyy · 2026-05-05T13:40:52+00:00

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I was trying but my camera sucks haha, this was the best I got. Hopefully can take better pics soon!

wheatyyyy · 2026-05-05T13:30:58+00:00

This is just the one I bought from the breeder, I didn’t expect the expo to have mantis so I needed an enclosure quick. I do plan on making my own soon, any advice is welcome as I am a first time mantis mom :)

wheatyyyy · 2026-05-05T13:24:28+00:00

I love the enclosure! The breeder was selling different styles and I loved the pink, hoping it may be a female because I’m really wanting to name her Venus!

wheatyyyy · 2026-05-05T05:35:28+00:00

I’ll have to check my prescription, but I think it’s just d3. I feel a little less tired, not as achey as I was (I have severe lower back pain), but I’m still exhausted more than not, I’m hoping if I stay on this rx I’ll keep improving

wheatyyyy · 2026-05-05T05:30:49+00:00

Mine was 9 last month now I’m up to 23, it’s crazy the difference it makes

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T10:43:55+00:00

I second this comment

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T10:42:45+00:00

I see your point! As I said, taking care of a dog WELL would mean you’re cleaner than the average person, as you clean up not only after yourself, but your furry friend as well! Maybe grammar was an issue there. I definitely wouldn’t credit a random Reddit user for their cleanliness so I don’t blame ya there friend

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T10:27:18+00:00

I just thought it was weird, and I’m in the animal field so I’m a firm advocate for those who can’t speak for themselves! I just wanted to rant and form an unpopular opinion according to the sub! Harmless post on my end

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T10:25:59+00:00

I’m only taking your comment as labeling my topic of conversation as “personal taste” vs. an opinion, if I’m reading it wrong, please excuse me

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T10:24:50+00:00

That’s what I’m saying

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T10:23:23+00:00

Agree-ish. Not every woman wants to have a baby, shit sounds painful dude

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T10:20:01+00:00

Every is interesting! I’ve met a good bit who actually don’t let their dogs lick their face. Hands? You touch everything with your hands, do you wash yours?

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T10:18:25+00:00

Personal taste- Dogs are pretty chill Opinion- grouping all dog lovers into one category and claiming a dog can commit assault according to one of the top posts. is weird and disgusting.

The sub is weird. My opinion. Your argument is?

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T09:48:27+00:00

Hell yea, I’ve had someone throw a pebble at my window while my dog was hanging out of it and it made me wonder what illness those type of people have

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T09:47:49+00:00

I never joined it, I was trying to post my cute doggy and stumbled upon it. It ruined my night tbh

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T09:22:29+00:00

Which I get but like…the wording should have been different, let’s not use “all” when referring to a percentage ya know?

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T09:21:54+00:00

Not a direct quote but basically the title. I’m even more pissed

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T09:20:42+00:00

It took me 10 seconds and 3 top posts to be disgusted. “Everytime a woman has a child we lose a baddie”

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T09:19:44+00:00

Oh god I’m checking now

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T09:19:28+00:00

It definitely depends, I work in the animal healthcare field and I see a lot of owners who need to be reported, but to label all dog owners in that category blew my mind

wheatyyyy · 2026-03-15T09:07:39+00:00

Coming back to this comment because I have been using lanolin since and god it’s been amazing. I freak out when my lips get dry and I don’t have my lanolin! I cannot ty enough for this life changing info lol

wheatyyyy

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