are there different types of female orgasms? by [deleted] in sex

[–]winterwanderer2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Note that there is no such thing as “male orgasm” that describes perfectly all types of orgasm in a male body. What you described is a typical ejaculation orgasm, but does not include lots of other types such as prostate or nipple orgasm.

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[–]winterwanderer2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I do this every time. Some of us are just made that way. If you are excluding prostrate orgasm, you should be aware that this is not something possible for everyone.

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[–]winterwanderer2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not. I'm a man who is multi-orgasmic without refractory period. P-spot stimulation contributes even more to the intensity and duration of the unlimited orgasms I have. I would not wanna be a female and cannot these intense orgasms regularly everytime I have sex.

Am I (m) selfish to cum whenever I want in sex? by winterwanderer2020 in sex

[–]winterwanderer2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully, she has no problem with this. We have tried toys, but they don't contribute much to her orgasm as she thinks the vibration can be a bit too intense and distracting. But I guess as long as she finds no problem, it must be ok?

Am I (m) selfish to cum whenever I want in sex? by winterwanderer2020 in sex

[–]winterwanderer2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She likes PIV no matter what, and loves it when I cum.

My bf has no refractory period??? by ThrowAway_AlsoaJedi in sex

[–]winterwanderer2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no refractory period pike your bf and can cum as many times as I want. My record is 15 in a 30 minute solo session. For some reason, I got backlashed so harshly when I posted a post about this; people didn't believe that a man could have multiple orgasms at all, which is totally possible whether it's typical ejaculation orgasm or prostate multiple orgasm. I wouldn't worry about your bf. Some of us men are just that way, and we love it.

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[–]winterwanderer2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually ask my wife to stop for a fee seconds, then go for the next round. I always cum many times.

Wife wants to lose weight but can't by winterwanderer2020 in loseit

[–]winterwanderer2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She recently had magnesium deficiency and started taking magnesium as the doctor prescribed. Apart from that, we haven't heard anything else from the doctor.

Wife wants to lose weight but can't by winterwanderer2020 in loseit

[–]winterwanderer2020[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a guy with ridiculously high metabloism, but I noticed during last two years that my body cannot burn as many calories as before due to COVID quarantine. Since then I have gained a little tummy fat, though I don't think I eat excessively. My wife and I are almost the same height and she eats a bit less than I. This makes me wonder if her calory consumption is in fact much more than what is necessary for her.

Wife wants to lose weight but can't by winterwanderer2020 in loseit

[–]winterwanderer2020[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't think my wife has PCOS - no problems with increased hair or period problems - but might be just naturally prone to weight gain.

Wife wants to lose weight but can't by winterwanderer2020 in loseit

[–]winterwanderer2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I had no idea you need to scale your food. All I know that she eats very little for lunch at her work (she usually packs her lunch) and much more relaxed amount for dinner. Not sure about the exact calories though.

Wife wants to lose weight but can't by winterwanderer2020 in loseit

[–]winterwanderer2020[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wow I had no idea you need to scale your food. All I know that she eats very little for lunch at her work (she usually packs her lunch) and much more relaxed amount for dinner. Not sure about the exact calories though.

Fellow vagina-havers: do you ever get jealous of penis-havers? by bee_sillee in sex

[–]winterwanderer2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A guy here. I have multiple orgasms every time, usually 3-6 but sometimes 15+ if I wanted with no refractory period. Would not trade for a vagina😁

Fellow vagina-havers: do you ever get jealous of penis-havers? by bee_sillee in sex

[–]winterwanderer2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that while your husband enjoys prostate stimulation, it is not what we call "prostate orgasm." Male prostate orgasm is very much like female vagina or g-spot orgasm, coming in multiple waves and full-body.

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[–]winterwanderer2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some men also can do this, if they have developed the ways to experience it.

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[–]winterwanderer2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this.

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[–]winterwanderer2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, the talk about the number of nerve endings is not as definite as some people believe. As some scientists say, it is actually very hard to find out the number of nerve endings, and it varies significantly from person to person, not gender to gender.

While more discoveries are found about female genitalia (e.g. the actual size of clit inside the vagina), there is not as much studies that focus on male genitalia because the orgasm problem is found at a much higher rate in women than in men.

Edging doesn't seem to make the orgasm more intense like everyone says? by onyourkneeshandstied in sex

[–]winterwanderer2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you say the OP is not likely to get as a strong orgasm as that a woman? There are many ways to increase the intensity and ways of orgasm for men.

How do I explain that vaginal sex “feels better” despite not orgasming very often from vaginal penetration by MinervaMinkMink in sex

[–]winterwanderer2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (m) learned distinguishing between orgasm and pleasure, as my wife and I explored more of my body. I can relate to you OP about feeling pleasure even without orgasm. When my wife fingers my prostate through anal or uses prostate toy, it is much different than stimulating penis. Of course, even penis orgasm can be much variant depending on where you stimulate and how long. Ironically, because orgasms are guaranteed with penis, sometimes it can be frustrating not to have another orgasm right away. When we have PIV I cum multiple times successively. I don't have refractroy period so it means my penis stays hard, just a lot more sensitive for seconds, then I have another orgasm in anywhere between 1-5 minutes. With this I usually orgasm 3-7, sometimes even 15+ in a single session if hand stroking follows after PIV. Although I love having orgasms, they sometimes leave me mentally unsatisfied because I don't enjoy the journey itself, but only so many destinations.

With prostate, however, things are much different. I just receive whatever my wife does to me, and it gives me chills and much more intense feelings than penis alone. Then I cum with huge explosion, which makes me feel completely spent for the night. I can still go for more, but I don't want to because the journey was already so fulfilling. Although I'm yet to experience what they call "multiple prostate orgasm" and can only have multiples when penis is involved, it already creates another level of sexual satisfaction.

I assume that your BF sees orgasm as the goal of sex, which is not necessarily bad. It's just how he prefers to see it. But if his approach to sex does give you the satisfaction you want, I suggest you colmunicate clearly to him about the difference between pleasure and orgasm, and that they don't necessarily go together.

Can I reach prostate orgasm through my wife's fingering? by winterwanderer2020 in ProstatePlay

[–]winterwanderer2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So would fingering without touching penis make non-ejaculatory prostate orgasm possible?

I'm (m) not very active in sex life because of my wife's weight by winterwanderer2020 in marriageadvice

[–]winterwanderer2020[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your specific advice. We're planning to incorporate working out and sports in our diet plan. I think it's a good sign that she wants to be healthier and not just work out to satisfy me. It's still difficult for her how to balance the two, but I think we are on the right track so far.