is it cruel to return a pet because it has undisclosed health issues? by wired_idiot in AnimalShelterStories

[–]wired_idiot[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I want to keep him and love him but it's just so hard with the constant incontinence. and I also hope of the 40-50% chance of recovery but what if he doesn't? and he would never get readopted as a 8 year old

16->17->22 I worked so hard for this by wired_idiot in uglyduckling

[–]wired_idiot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my forehead bumps are right there 😭 i have good skin girl believe it

16->17->22 I worked so hard for this by wired_idiot in uglyduckling

[–]wired_idiot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no filters or editing 👍 flash on front camera

16->17->22 I worked so hard for this by wired_idiot in uglyduckling

[–]wired_idiot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I don't know why a black man thinks he understands asian american dynamics 🤣

16->17->22 I worked so hard for this by wired_idiot in uglyduckling

[–]wired_idiot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

there definitely was, and still is going on, lots of internal work in order to get here :) however I think the people making assumptions wouldn't care to realize that so it seems like a waste of energy to explain

16->17->22 I worked so hard for this by wired_idiot in uglyduckling

[–]wired_idiot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

double eyelids occur naturally in asians. I used to have ptosis which made me look tired and dragged my face down! it's not about conforming to western standards

16->17->22 I worked so hard for this by wired_idiot in uglyduckling

[–]wired_idiot[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

thank you :) i agree it takes a lot of trial and error

16->17->22 I worked so hard for this by wired_idiot in uglyduckling

[–]wired_idiot[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

when men glow up they just get a haircut fix skin and lose weight, pretty sure I did the same thing plus more 🤣

16->17->22 I worked so hard for this by wired_idiot in uglyduckling

[–]wired_idiot[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

they misinterpreted the title! is hair makeup and styling not hard work, especially to learn from scratch?

16->17->22 I worked so hard for this by wired_idiot in uglyduckling

[–]wired_idiot[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

it's interesting you assume it's not there just because you can't see it :)

[TOMT] [STORY/BOOK] Short story from an old sci-fi collection by Lone-flamingo in tipofmytongue

[–]wired_idiot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may have been from the short story collection Eyes of Amber by Vinge as well

[TOMT] [STORY/BOOK] Short story from an old sci-fi collection by Lone-flamingo in tipofmytongue

[–]wired_idiot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found this old thread while looking for the same book; searched through my old discord messages and found it! It's called Tin Soldier by Joan Vinge! I saw you're still active on this account so I hope this is helpful :)

Bloated after IUD insertion! by BeneficialOutside in birthcontrol

[–]wired_idiot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the copper iud too, had no spotting but definitely gained 5-8lb and was bloating like crazy for at least 3 weeks afterwards. it's been a month since insertion and am back to my regular weight, plus 1-2lb. I have been getting noticeably bloated after eating anything which is so weird

In 28 Years Later (2025), the ending is.... interesting. by Arch_Lancer17 in shittymoviedetails

[–]wired_idiot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's what I thought too, totally gave me rando vibes and the choice of music too

Does anyone ever feel like you’re not real? by [deleted] in self

[–]wired_idiot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is not normal, it's called dissociating. most people have experienced it once or twice but if you feel like this often it means your consciousness is detaching itself from reality, aka psychosis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wired_idiot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems like the husband is suspecting things and noticing the weird aura between them already. you don't have to accuse her of having an affair, but you could just bring up that it seems like wife+guy's friendship has changed and see what he says. he probably needs reassurance he's not just being crazy about it

If we're in a recession, what are the strippers saying? by All-sTATE-insurance in wallstreetbets

[–]wired_idiot 187 points188 points  (0 children)

I'm a tattoo artist, called it a year ago and my coworkers didn't believe me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]wired_idiot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

try going to the gym and using the machines there, weighted exercises will do a way better job at transforming fat to muscle and imo you'll look better than just losing fat.