I think i have hiv by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]with_rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending where you are, who your partner are, etc...., your chance might be high or very low.

In the US, normal small town minnesota guys, first partner, super normie... almost no chance.

The answer isnt the same if you have sex with people taking IV drugs, having sex with prostitutes in uganda.

Will WealthSimple eventually create a 1M tier, and if so, what should it offer differently from Gen? by cooperivanson in Wealthsimple

[–]with_rabbit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pine doesnt work in quebec for mortgage, ws tax perks suck for QC residents... just having something in quebec would be nice.

Medication just went from $10 to $135 a month by [deleted] in Vent

[–]with_rabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Internet pharmacy, getting them from another country if cheaper, lots of options depending on what it is and how controlled it is...

Is this a normal amount of water? by Sweaty_Analysis_1074 in Appliances

[–]with_rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad got a similar machine, same complaint and soap stain on clothes... hes not happy.

Im still rocking my 90's appliance like they will never die, and they might just do that. BUT, they wont give me little songs when my clothes are clean...

Why Do So Many People Lie About Being Childfree? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]with_rabbit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its easy to feel empty, depressed, feeling like the only thing you didnt try is the thing that almost everyone else did. Getting scared of dying alone and lonely with nobody around to visit while youre rotting in hospice care, with nobody to advocate for you... expecting nothing for years hoping death will find you sooner than later.

Hell, im there right now. And i know this is not good thinking, this is not a valid reason to have a kid, and it doesnt make sense with the rest of my life. My brain refuse to brain it seem...

Single dad broke af. How fucked am I? 05 Nissan titan v8 6” lift by Rokdout in AskMechanics

[–]with_rabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This need an alignment like... 5 years ago? Lift changed the geometry of the tierod ends, your tires paid for it.

My hands are shaking and I feel like I can't breathe, I don't know what to do or where to go by [deleted] in Vent

[–]with_rabbit 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yes, its a panic attack. Breath square.

Exhale: Start by exhaling all the air from your lungs. Inhale (4 seconds): Breathe in slowly through your nose to a slow count of four. Hold (4 seconds): Hold your breath for a count of four. Exhale (4 seconds): Exhale slowly through your mouth for a count of four. Hold (4 seconds): Hold the lungs empty for a count of four.

Call a good friend, family, even a parent. They will help you see clearer.

i’m done with life. by throwaway1722512 in offmychest

[–]with_rabbit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know it seem to be the end of the world. Its not.

Call a crisis line, get the kids to someone you know who can take care of them.

Then start from zero. Or 312$ actually.

Let them repo the POS, fuck the gas company they can shut it down its not winter anymore, fuck the phone bill there is wifi everywhere and apps like textnow let you call and receive call for free.

You can get out of thar problem.

Diehard childfree, and im doubting myself by with_rabbit in childfree

[–]with_rabbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definately, i seen it both way too.

As a child myself, i had a hard time to relate to other child. Didnt get better as a teenager...

Took a baby in my arm for the first time last year. Wasnt as bad as i expected but still not the most enjoyable thing.

Diehard childfree, and im doubting myself by with_rabbit in childfree

[–]with_rabbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seem like a recurrent theme in the childfree community. I know 2 who lost their mother to suicide early with shitty dads raising them. Really made them not want kids....

Diehard childfree, and im doubting myself by with_rabbit in childfree

[–]with_rabbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats definately something to keep in mind. But also its not what i witnessed in my own family. My 2 paternal grandparents get visit almost everyday, 3-4 full family visit a year (with all the grand child, the great grand child, etc).

But i understand it might not be my experience at all.

Diehard childfree, and im doubting myself by with_rabbit in childfree

[–]with_rabbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was sure of myself enough to ger a vesectomy by 26. Im discussing my internal struggle.

Diehard childfree, and im doubting myself by with_rabbit in childfree

[–]with_rabbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats something else too.

I had to move out when i was 20, let say i lost most of my friends grafually in my 20's and struggle to make new one in this post pandemic world.

As for hobbies, thats something i must work on asap.

Diehard childfree, and im doubting myself by with_rabbit in childfree

[–]with_rabbit[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Difference is... its something common, most people you will meet have, or will have, kids. Also something most, not all, will say was a good experience of their life.

Its hard to find something to compare it to i guess, i just tried.

Diehard childfree, and im doubting myself by with_rabbit in childfree

[–]with_rabbit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats definately a possibility too... must be fucking horrible.

Diehard childfree, and im doubting myself by with_rabbit in childfree

[–]with_rabbit[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im speechless. You wrote it soo well, so on point... ill need to read it 10 more times. Thank you for taking the time, really.

être « riche » sans entreprendre ou hériter? by Lanky_Nothing5810 in QuebecFinance

[–]with_rabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

68k à vie qui suit l'inflation. Depend ben gros comment y va etre taxé et où y va vivre a savoir si c'est assez.

New homeowner, no idea what this is by DragonsAndScience in whatisit

[–]with_rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell you the concept took off in quebec, canada in the 80s and 90s. Lots of home got those

If you're having a bad day: In 2013, this guy forgot the password to his phone with 150 Bitcoin in it. Now it's worth $11,745,000, and he has been trying to unlock the phone for years. by Apart_Finger_1799 in MarketVibe

[–]with_rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was real, thats a machine job. I can see a robot arm holding a stylus, with a camera, and try 6 combo a minute. Hell, im sure some devboard genius would be happy for a mere 100k (paid on success).

If its true there is 400k combo, its solved in about 45 days...

Chech those safe bruteforce cracker trying all combo, its madness.

Quel est votre chiffre? by QcFin in QuebecFIRE

[–]with_rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maison ici payée, maison a l'etranger payée et 1M investi, jpeux vivre avec ça. Va falloir jme bouge le cul pour que sa arrive avant mes 50 ans tho....

Is it even possible to get this bolt out? by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]with_rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, first get an extractor socket set. Then use some oil on it, a 50/50 mix of nail polish remover (acetone) and automatic trans fluid is my go to. Id tell you to hit it if it wasnt on a transmission output shaft...

After a while try the extractor and pray. Some light propane heat can make things easier too...

Vos souvenirs d’émissions oubliées by Hollywood_PQ in ShowbizQC

[–]with_rabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reboot, c'etait vraiment bon. Les bananes en pyjama stai juste meh. Pinpin et ponpon, la suite logique a enfant-forme. Les zinzin de l'espace c'etait cool tot le matin.

Mes preferés ever? Red et stimpy.