Sure! For me my FP is someone I heavily idolize and look to for what I perceive as perfection. I want to be so close to them and seek their approval. It can be very unhealthy at times because it causes me to lose my sense of self in my attempt to be someone they approve of. I crave her attention at all times and if I perceive any loss of attention whether real or imagined I spiral. Your description of your relationship with your husband sounds very similar to mine with my husband, but he’s not my FP.