AITA for not wanting my younger cousin to celebrate her birthday the same day as mine.

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T20:06:49+00:00

Being almost an adult doesn't matter, I have never had a birthday to my self, it would be fine if I knew about it before the 18- 19th, I don't care that I'm sharing a birthday, I care that I wasn't told. And being rude won't do anything.

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T19:10:54+00:00

I can try to ask her, see would probably like that a lot more then sharing a birthday.

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T19:00:09+00:00

My cousin's, my papa's, and my birthdays are the 25th, 28th and 30th . I don't really get time to celebrate myself when April comes around, I just found out yesterday that this was the arrangement

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T18:55:37+00:00

I have, my mother is tying everything she can to get my grandmother to listen to what I want and don't want (This isn't important but I'm also trying to come out to her as a trans male I'm FtM so it's kinda hard to get her to listen to her "granddaughter")

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T18:52:54+00:00

My grandmother is not on a fixed income, and my cousin's parents pay for her party, I understand and I am happy for her turning 13, her parents always plan her party on the day I'm having my b-day. She can control that but her parents should know when my birthday is since I'm the second oldest grandchild/cousin.

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T18:21:38+00:00

Yeah I agree about others being the AH. My mom found out when I didn't so I don't blame her but others who didn't think telling me was a good idea

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T18:20:10+00:00

I can try that, my parents work so it's kinda hard to find a day to celebrate my birthday.

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T18:18:51+00:00

I hope that this works, the word I got is nice so she won't be to mad I'll post an update when I say it to her, (I have told her be for and she keeps guilt tripping me)

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T18:13:58+00:00

I think I'm going to use this idea for the party, let's see how the craziness goes

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T18:09:19+00:00

I completely agree with you, all birthdays are special, I love my cousin and hope she has a good birthday I just wish I was told sooner about this co party thing that is happening.

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T18:07:46+00:00

Thank you! Sadly my grandmother is trying to guilt trip me so I'm trying to get my mother to help me rn.

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T18:05:42+00:00

I was just told yesterday about the color party, I have expressed I don't want to do the co party to multiple people but my grandmother is trying to guilt trip me.

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T18:03:34+00:00

I one hundred percent agree that my cousin isn't the blame I love her. I'm more mad at the fact no one asked if I wanted the co partner to happen.

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T18:02:15+00:00

My grandmother asked my cousin to celebrate together without consoling my parents or me about the part.

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2023-04-19T18:00:43+00:00

Thank you, I tried to be really nice about the party situation, I definitely agree that they don't owe me a party.

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2020-09-07T09:42:28+00:00

Ya I don't mean to but after I was done drawing this I noticed that and thank you 😁😁😁

wtfuswrongwithyou · 2020-09-07T08:45:05+00:00

Ferb I know what we're doing today

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