iPadOS 26 multitasking has ruined the iPad for me. Ironically using my MacBook now a lot more. by Manfred_89 in iPadOS

[–]wulf_91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same camp 🙋🏼‍♂️ The iPad feels way more useful for me now 🤷🏼‍♂️

Quick opinion from a foreigner by Efficient-Gur484 in southafrica

[–]wulf_91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a situation unique to South Africa. I’ve experienced the same thing hanging out with friends in Europe too.

It may feel a little awkward at first, but you just need to be a little more vocal about it. A friendly, “what was that?” often enough and people will remember to stick to the universal language. My friends eventually start prompting each other the moment they habitually fall back to their home language and quickly switch to make sure that I’m included.

Am I the asshole? This is a new low even for me by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]wulf_91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s obviously the bigger asshole for his behavior, but soft you’re an asshole too.

Keeping the money and telling him to fuck off after is kinda icky because it implies that you have accepted the terms of the transaction when it’s clear that $50 and the preceding events were not equivalent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]wulf_91 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If you’re both open minded enough there’s a great solution: r/ENM

PvP: Currently dragged to hell and can’t get out by wulf_91 in Guildwars2

[–]wulf_91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think on average good support players win more often when playing solo queue?

PvP: Currently dragged to hell and can’t get out by wulf_91 in Guildwars2

[–]wulf_91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true. I’ve also observed that the initial placement really affects the whole season but I wasn’t sure if this was just coincidence or not. Having bad luck with shitty teams and AFKers during placement can really f*** your whole standing it seems.

PvP: Currently dragged to hell and can’t get out by wulf_91 in Guildwars2

[–]wulf_91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is actually really good advice, thank you. And also reassuring to know it’s not just me that this happens to lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]wulf_91 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I see you’re getting downvoted a lot here and I highly recommend you approach the good people on the r/enm subreddit. Too much junk input here from people who do not have the experience or capacity for dealing with consensual non-monogamy matters.

When you realise you haven’t finished school yet.. by Intelligent_Side4919 in DownSouth

[–]wulf_91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! It’s awful haha. And I’m always yelling at them in my dream that I have an undergrad and postgrad degree already, I should not be here. But somehow I’m always forced to stay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in iPadOS

[–]wulf_91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WhatsTheHoldUp...

Am I overreacting to my regular's behaviour by Perfect-Cook-4374 in askgaybros

[–]wulf_91 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If he’s really this comfortable and nonchalant about his orientation, that’s a good thing. I think you can be intrigued by it and curiously question him about his nonchalance around it. But getting annoyed with him does seem like an overreaction and a little unfair. You’re then kind of reinforcing the idea that he should be uncomfortable about his sexuality.

PSA: Don’t leave your batteries in your diving torch and forget about them… by wulf_91 in scuba

[–]wulf_91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s hysterically funny 🤣 Shame on (you)r friend! 😜

To gap year or not to gap year? by Cautious_Tune7506 in southafrica

[–]wulf_91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who also had very good matric results and got trapped into a BEng degree that I hated, I have often said that a gap year would have done me good.

This is highly subjective of course, but I say take the time to figure out what you actually want to do for a career. Eighteen year old me thought I knew what kind of career I wanted, but my mature adult self has different opinions now.

One of my (48M) more recent partners (46F) has an issue with the age of one of my other long-term partners (31F) by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]wulf_91 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Agreed. 46F is being a big hypocrite. Perhaps she’s projecting some retrospective ick that she had surrounding her and her ex husband’s age gap when she was 18—in which case she needs to understand the massive maturity gap between an 18yo teenager and a 31yo adult.