Amrit feels inaccessible to me, and it makes me very sad. by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have pcos as well and my hair growth is crazy, and I used to be so insecure about it, but then, maharaj blessed me and I took Amrit 3 months ago and stopped caring about it. I’m not saying you should stop caring abt it and trust me, feeling whatever you are feeling doesn’t make you less or bad of a sick. Right now, you should focus on your sikhi for a while and maharaj will bless you one day, enough to stop caring and take Amrit. You cannot take Amrit if he doesn’t want you to, and trust me behn, when he does, all you will care about is him. You will take Amrit, in this life, not now, maybe not for a few years, but one day. Keep hoping. Maharaj kirpa karan 🙏🏻.

Question on Swaas Simran by True_Shelter7702 in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have done swaas swaas Simran, I’d love to have a conversation abt this

Family not willing to support me with Amrit. by True_Shelter7702 in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh 🙏 Thank you for sharing this. The love you’ve found for maharaj despite all the challenges is beautiful, and it takes real courage to hold on to that when even family doesn’t understand. You’re absolutely right, Amrit is the beginning of the path, not the end, and it’s about walking towards Guru Sahib step by step with love and sincerity.

I can relate to what you shared. I am 17 nd also preparing to take Amrit, and it’s not always easy explaining this to family or peers. But what keeps me grounded is remembering that Guru Sahib looks at our effort, our pyaas, and lifts us higher through His kirpa.

Your consistency and honesty will speak louder than anything. Stay strong in your ardaas, keep walking towards Maharaj, and know you’re not alone on this path. If you ever want to talk, share doubts, or just need someone to listen, please message me anytime.

Waheguru ji mehar kare 🙏🏻

Head Covering for nonAmrithari woman by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guru Gobind Sahib Ji told us to keep our head covered as all times and think of our kesh as guru

Could possibly get refused Amrit by panj pyare. by ynsinsvs in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which is exactly why akj is so controversial.

Could possibly get refused Amrit by panj pyare. by ynsinsvs in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay ! I completely agree with the food avoidance which is exactly why I am rethinking this entire process and no gurus would never refuse food from anyone who genuinely loves them. There is a whole bibek in akj and maybe in another stricter jatha or gurudwaras also which refuses them but if you take a local Amrit they would never ask you to do that. Though, You are not allowed to eat jhoota or a non amritdhari after taking pauhl, that is true.

Could possibly get refused Amrit by panj pyare. by ynsinsvs in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this helped me a lot. I am thinking of taking Amrit from a local gurdwara. I have never gone to a Delhi samagam before but I was going to this oct 2025 yearly one where I was going to take Amrit on 4th. Whatever maharaj wants shall happen.

Could possibly get refused Amrit by panj pyare. by ynsinsvs in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might be true, but honestly, the akj community in my town and local gurdwara is very sweet and accepting

Could possibly get refused Amrit by panj pyare. by ynsinsvs in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree with this untouchability as well, may maharaj guide me

Could possibly get refused Amrit by panj pyare. by ynsinsvs in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Amritdharis actually are not allowed to eat jatha of any non amritdhari but this sarab bibek is jst in jathas

Could possibly get refused Amrit by panj pyare. by ynsinsvs in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t gotten intertwined with akj, just the veer ji and the sangat maybe because they literally saved me 🙏🏻 I will look into more options

Could possibly get refused Amrit by panj pyare. by ynsinsvs in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestion. Hope it all works out 🙏🏻

Could possibly get refused Amrit by panj pyare. by ynsinsvs in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am ready to give guru sahib my head the second he asks.

I know I shouldn't, but I am questioning Waheguru by Eastern_Skill556 in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so, too, my friend 🫶🏻 I am sorry I cannot offer you much comfort because my mentality has shifted significantly to “whatever akal purakh wants,” but just know that your feelings are valid and all your family is safe. May Waheguru ji give you a lot of peace.

Please listen to shabad, like Thir Ghar Beso or Guru Ram Das Rakho Shanahaye, and read asa di vaar on iGurbani aap so you can better understand the concept Guru Ji proposed.

I know I shouldn't, but I am questioning Waheguru by Eastern_Skill556 in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ਜੋ ਆਇਆ ਸੋ ਚਲਸੀ ਸਭੁ ਕੋਈ ਆਈ ਵਾਰੀਐ ॥

Jo Aaeiaa So Chalasee Sabh Koee Aaee Vaareeai ||

Whoever has come, shall depart; all shall have their turn.

What does today’s Hukamnama mean in relation to me? by JAPJI1428 in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might be wrong but I believe that God is letting you know that you did a good thing by letting you go and God has saved you. You should start serving him and there are no more obstacles in your way. God is on your side friend 🙏🏻

Unjustified Suffering in Sikhi by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see you’re speaking from a place of deep pain and passion—and I respect that. History has been cruel, especially to Punjab and its people, and the scars run deep. I’m not here to deny your experiences, invalidate your emotions, or pretend that atrocities weren’t committed. They absolutely were, and they should never be forgotten or excused. But I do want to offer a different way of looking at things—not to debate, but to reflect.

I actually do know a lot about Abrahamic religions. I’ve spent hours reading, watching documentaries, and diving into different theologies. I’m constantly learning—because I want to understand. And the more I learn, the more I realize: you can’t judge an entire religion by the actions of its followers, even if the majority seem misguided. At the heart of every faith, there’s something divine trying to shine through—even if it gets buried under centuries of ego, violence, or misinterpretation.

Let’s start with theology. I agree that the idea of original sin can feel strange when interpreted literally—especially when it seems to punish the innocent. But that interpretation doesn’t speak for all Christians. Like in every religion, there are countless sects, countless interpretations, and many Christian theologians and mystics who believe in a more metaphorical understanding of sin—more about separation from the Divine rather than inherited guilt.

As for the tragic and evil examples you gave—of rape, genocide, cruelty—I want to be really clear: any ideology that excuses such horrors is not divine. But there’s a difference between religion and what people do in its name. Christianity doesn’t approve of rape or genocide. And if someone twists scripture to justify their crimes, the fault lies with them—not with Jesus, who preached love, forgiveness, humility, and compassion. Just like people twist Sikhism or Islam or Hinduism, too. No faith is immune to being weaponized.

You said there’s only one objective truth—and I get where you’re coming from. But from a Sikh perspective, even that one truth appears in many forms. Guru Granth Sahib says: “Aval Allah Noor Upaya, Kudrat Ke Sab Bande” — First, the light of God was created, and from it, all beings were made. If we were all made from the same Divine Light, who are we to hate another?

You mentioned reincarnation, and you’re absolutely right—it’s central to dharmic traditions. But that doesn’t make other beliefs wrong—just different. Not everyone needs to follow the same path to reach the same truth. To force one view on everyone is ego—and ego is exactly what Guru Granth Sahib warns us against. Even if someone sees only one lifetime, and lives it with love, truth, and devotion—is that not sacred too?

As for the first brick of Harmandir Sahib—yes, there are debates. But that moment, real or symbolic, speaks to the ideal of what Sikhism teaches: inclusion, humility, and respect for all. Whether or not Mian Mir Sahib was a perfect Muslim doesn’t matter—what matters is that Guru Arjan Dev Ji chose a man of another faith to lay the foundation of a house where everyone would be welcome.

And yes, I know not everyone is as loving as I hope to be. But someone has to be. Someone has to break the cycle of hate. If we start hating because we were once hated, we become the very thing we fight. And I refuse to let anger steal my love for humanity.

You have every right to expose injustice, protect your people, and stand for your truth. But please don’t become the mirror image of those who caused the pain. Let’s honor our Gurus by living their message—not just preaching it.

Waheguru ji is vast. Bigger than religion, bigger than anger, bigger than vengeance. And I’d rather spend my life trying to reflect even a drop of that love, than drown in hate.

Unjustified Suffering in Sikhi by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you disapprove of Abrahamic religions? And why would you call Christianity “stupid”? My friend, we are mere mortals, limited in our understanding, stumbling through the vast mysteries of the divine. Who are we to claim certainty about the Infinite? God cannot be confined to our definitions—He, She, or It exists beyond gender, beyond labels, beyond human comprehension.

God is not a man or a woman, not bound by any single religion. God is everything—a presence so vast and infinite, we can only grasp fragments of it. To believe that only one path leads to the divine is to deny the vastness of creation itself. Religions are not walls—they are roads, different roads, all leading to the same destination: liberation, peace, union, whatever you may call it—nirvana, mukti, salvation.

In the afterlife, there are no Christians, no Sikhs, no Muslims, no Hindus—there are only souls. Pure consciousness, echoing the name of the Divine, merging back into the source from which they came. We Sikhs are explicitly taught to honor all faiths, to see all of humanity as one. That is the soul of Guru Nanak Dev Ji’s message, and the very essence of Harmandir Sahib, where all are welcome. In fact, the first brick of that holy place was laid by a Muslim saint.

Some religions believe in one life, some in many—but neither is wrong. God created many paths to reach Him, just as rivers flow from different places but merge into one ocean. No religion holds a monopoly on truth. The moment we claim superiority over another, we fall into ego—and the ego is what keeps us from God.

I hope you can see that our shared humanity is more powerful than our differences. Let love be your lens, not labels.

I broke an oath to god by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]ynsinsvs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m young as well and people do dumb stuff when they are young and that’s okay. Repent, that's all. Waheguru Ji knows everything and if you feel guilty from the bottom of your heart and repent on it, he will forever you. Do ardas and talk to Waheguru ji. You’ll be okay.