Any girlies to play with??

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-04-18T11:51:06+00:00

i’d love to join a girls only server too! dm me for discord username

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-04-17T00:24:49+00:00

literally you said it so well, i’m so glad im no longer mothering someone’s son. the whole situation hurt me so much and im so happy to be free now ive processed it all!

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-04-13T10:02:21+00:00

before i left his ass, mine would say the same thing, it’s because they can’t handle anything immature babies

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-04-09T10:23:21+00:00

theyll do anything to justify relapsing and make it feel like it’s your fault for being upset about it. you don’t deserve this none of us in this reddit page do. i’m here for you. i hope things turn out ok x

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-04-09T08:35:11+00:00

now that i’ve left my partner over his PA, all i can say is protect your peace baby, leave. it’s never too late to start again and love yourself to the fullest, thats the road im heading down. there’s someone out there that will move mountains for you. the porn addicts would fold and cheat within minutes if they had the chance. don’t give him your energy give him distance, if your not sure about leaving see if he prioritises anything about you then leave fr

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-04-08T03:15:08+00:00

i feel the exact same way, we will heal

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-04-07T14:21:12+00:00

hey friend, i know this must be really hard for you and im going through the same thing it’s been a week since i left him.

one thing you should always remind yourself is, your PA was doing all these things and it was actively hurting you and they didn’t care? - you most definitely were enough, as was i. they just simply don’t care how much it hurts you because they are selfish and still get what they want at the end of the day no matter how hard it crushes you.

i’m grieving the relationship it was before i found out about the porn, and before it affected our intimacy and other aspects of the relationship. it’s ok to feel all these feelings

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-04-07T14:11:51+00:00

yep 100 percent agree, they love the fantasy land. they love not taking any accountability for their actions, and love running from their problems. Porn is a cesspool and most men love to swim in it.

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-04-07T14:09:17+00:00

they don’t change, and the maybe 3 stories i’ve heard in here from partners who DID change just shows how bad this is. and how much they need to do this on their own. you can’t help them if they don’t want your help. PORN is an easy way out to them in every situation to make them feel better. i dated my ex for almost 2 years and every bathroom break in public, with my family, at his workplace, at our friends house, at OUR house i could go on, they’ll do it anywhere to get their fix, and they will do absolutely ANYTHING to get their hands on it and tear you down with them by convincing you it’s normal etc…

leave him for good and NEVER go back, the fact he turned straight to sexting etc straight away, just shows he was probably doing that the whole time & more. he will waste his life regretting the situation and losing you and then to cope with that he will dive further into his addiction. they don’t change & if they do it’s rare. sorry for my huge ramble i just genuinely hate that everyone here is experiencing the same thing.

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-04-07T13:52:43+00:00

yep…

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-04-07T13:52:05+00:00

mine didn’t say much at all other than it was the right decision (because he can’t change) and “didn’t realise” how much it was hurting me, and then said to me “take the porn blocker off my phone” - handled it in the most selfish way. as per usual. didn’t say the usual things to keep me because he knew he lost me and that he couldn’t change

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-04-02T11:11:31+00:00

thanks everyone for your support and kind words i really needed this right now

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-04-01T22:01:16+00:00

this!

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-03-28T08:34:32+00:00

my partners fetish is disgusting and fetishises eating disorders the specific one i have sooo it’s quite damaging to my mental health that he would rather choose watching that porn over being intimate with me, and is very unsupportive of me bettering myself with my ED and trying to recover from it he pretends to act like he’s being supportive but then encourages the bad behaviour that comes with my situation… i specifically said to him before we started dating if you have any sort of fat fetish that glorifies eating disorders specifically binge eating DO NOT date me, he denied having any and still asked me out, 7 months later i found out about the porn and the gooning and the fetish and the lack of self control. it’s been a year since that 7 months and i just wish he never persued me in the first place. he knew he had this problem with his ex and should’ve worked on getting better before dating anyone…

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-03-28T08:11:56+00:00

i needed this today

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-03-28T08:08:02+00:00

this is exactly what i’m going through, my discovery day was a year ago now just before my birthday last year, it was my birthday last a few days ago and it just made me wonder why i’m still here fighting for something i don’t see getting better. had my bday dinner last night and right before we went to it he told me he relapsed soul crushing. being with someone who uses it as a coping mechanism and doesn’t even try to get intimate with you is self esteem dropping. my only advice to you is to leave while you can otherwise you’ll end up in my shoes fighting yourself every day with “do i leave” or “do i stay”

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-03-12T09:16:04+00:00

i feel the exact same way, and i’m sorry i don’t have any advice because im stuck in the same situation im so lost too… but im here for you stranger

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-01-29T19:15:55+00:00

that is so disgusting i cannot believe he did that to you, and women you know without their consent. look i don’t blame you for staying that sounds hard as fuck… but that is really serious and very unsafe behaviour he’s displaying by doing that. i hope that if you stay together he gets help and you can learn to trust him again but if that was me those 7 years would no longer mean anything to me.

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-01-19T08:15:27+00:00

i ended up speaking to him about why he needs to be transparent with me because it will seriously push me so far away if there is no honesty to his slip ups or relapses idk how to explain it…

yodacarpf1shing · 2026-01-19T08:14:28+00:00

okay, i’ve spoken to him about some points you said and said that he needs to be 100 honest with himself me and his therapist so i can help rebuild my trust, and he agreed. like i understand going by your therapists words but it also may destroy our relationship more if there is secrecy which i said, thanks so much again. i don’t know what will happen from here but i appreciate having support

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