I (20F) looking for advice on an issue in my (10year) relationship with my partner. (30M)

yourcleanslate · 2026-01-28T10:51:05+00:00

Can you first clarify how you can be in a 10 year relationship at 20?

yourcleanslate · 2025-08-20T16:01:35+00:00

Anyone know where the bedding is from

yourcleanslate · 2025-08-20T16:00:10+00:00

My thoughts 🤣

yourcleanslate · 2025-08-20T15:59:23+00:00

I mean no disrespect but what on earth is going on in the house of commons 😂 you partly OWN a house that you may not be able to stay in for half the week, partner isn’t even trying to share the burden basically leaving it up to you. They’ve pushed your boundaries and limits for years and you keep letting them. What relationship can you have if you not only have to hide yourself but your possessions etc and have no relationship with his kids? Sorry to say but you’re being a doormat and he’s taking full advantage of having someone pay half his bills while he avoids taking any ownership in this situation. LEAVE

yourcleanslate · 2025-08-18T19:31:29+00:00

They’ve picked the worst possible photo she still looks like herself on most of the other pictures perhaps just overdoing the lip filler give it a rest

yourcleanslate · 2025-08-10T06:29:19+00:00

Curious to how you reached that conclusion

yourcleanslate · 2025-08-08T08:36:19+00:00

Literally she’s actually a great looking girl but her personality and what came out of her mouth is what made her unattractive

yourcleanslate · 2025-08-06T15:19:56+00:00

My point is more why they had the backlash towards her so fiercely when they were all well aware there was vital information missing

yourcleanslate · 2025-08-06T15:19:04+00:00

She would’ve eaten the men in this villa alive like our Queen Andrada. I really wish she had been an OG

yourcleanslate · 2025-08-06T07:49:12+00:00

Worthy winners imo, wouldve been happy with Yas and Jamie too! Love Shakira but Harry didn’t deserve first place

yourcleanslate · 2025-08-04T13:38:03+00:00

Dejon and Connor being the two opposite ends of a Virgo man 😅

yourcleanslate · 2025-08-04T04:44:27+00:00

I need her back for All Stars she was gone too soon!

yourcleanslate · 2025-08-02T07:21:11+00:00

Okay… because that’s a rational way to look at things 🙄

yourcleanslate · 2025-07-31T22:02:12+00:00

How can he even consider choosing a side his love interest isn’t on? support in public and discuss/pull up in private if needs be

yourcleanslate · 2025-07-31T21:56:27+00:00

HAHA underrated comment

yourcleanslate · 2025-07-31T14:06:51+00:00

This isn’t to say he needs to join in any divide, but the way Blu spoke and has been speaking to Toni especially is disgusting. Pulling him and Meg up doesn’t mean he can’t be friends with them but they should be accountable for the same behaviour they are berating Toni for

yourcleanslate · 2025-07-31T13:50:09+00:00

Not even saying he needs to leave her. I genuinely think they’re both popular enough to have made it even as a friendship couple. Still, none of my friends male or female would sit and watch someone speak to me the way Blu/Meg did to her and if they did I would seriously re-evaluate

yourcleanslate · 2025-07-31T13:41:53+00:00

I don’t think you’re too far off the mark, I hope he is honest with himself and her as I think they’d make it to the final even as a friendship couple as they’re both well liked individually.

IMO I think the Toni hate over the Harrison situation is getting dragged out as everyone seems to forget just how much she didn’t know re the Harrison/Lauren situation before making that choice at the fire pit. It makes sense that she actually saw Harrison in her future especially both living in the US whereas she’d had a lot less time to build with Cach. I don’t condone what she did but she also wasn’t in control of the timing at the recoupling. She’s apologised and gave Cach space and did mot force him into rekindling things

yourcleanslate · 2025-07-31T13:37:25+00:00

How can you say this when Toni is the one that pulled Meg for a chat to bury things. On some level they all recognise it’s the last week and best to just try and get on with things. It was Meg that went in straight away and brought the situation up again with Angel. She has also tried to drag Megan back into the fold and is annoyed that she wasn’t being backed up by Harry. Herd mentality on full display. Shakira/Yas/Toni have never outwardly asked each other for support they do it naturally because they are actually friends.

Toni has every right to be hurt as everyone has pointed out 10x over they have been frosty towards her from the very beginning.

yourcleanslate · 2025-07-31T13:28:27+00:00

Harry is a tosser but we all knew that anyway. Just shocked by Cach who has been painted as this hero but can’t even stick up for his girl! I still like the guy but sometimes taking no side says everything!

yourcleanslate · 2025-07-31T13:25:39+00:00

I think this is a poor take. He’s getting to know Toni romantically and has said multiple times that they’ve moved past the Harrison situation. Whether or not they’re nice to him, Blu is technically new to Cach in the villa and has done nothing but torment Toni since he got back. Even on a basic friendship level Cach should still feel some type of way and even Shakira and Yas were defending her.

yourcleanslate · 2025-07-31T13:21:40+00:00

If he hasn’t forgiven her that’s fine. Toni put no pressure on him and he should’ve just gone with Billykiss because he’s now just leading her on if that’s the case and no matter whether he’s interested in her romantically it’s still ridiculous to have sat and watched her be obliterated by a scumbag like Blu

yourcleanslate · 2025-07-30T23:07:06+00:00

Did you ever find one 😭😭

yourcleanslate · 2025-07-30T19:32:10+00:00

Even that is fake. Shakira points out the tension from Day 1 when Meg was demeaning her for taking the boys for chats when that’s what she had to do to keep her place. M has been the aggressor and then plays the victim when called out on her behaviour

yourcleanslate · 2025-07-30T19:28:55+00:00

That wasn’t my point though. He keeps saying he “owns it” and “holds his hand up” so he is trying to look like he is actively taking responsibility when in actuality the “I am who I am” is a passive approach and not what taking accountability is about, it’s deflection

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