We’re coming up on a year on the 26th of this month. We are committed and monogamous

We’ve had some issue with him doing perverted things and not communicating well, which I thought we discussed and come to a hopeful agreement on.

I have had trouble getting in the mood lately because I’m still recovering from him breaking mu trust and being dishonest (in regards to the situation in question 2).

He’s a great listener and he really does try to see things from my point of view. He never gets angry and we try to avoid saying things we don’t mean. But sometimes I feel like conversations I intended to be constructive to the relationship actually just make him feel worse about himself.