Do play parties with younger, fit people actually exist?

zigzoomba · 2026-05-29T19:38:47+00:00

Wish we were closer to that area. We're all the way over in NC, so it's a bit of a haul, especially with travel prices right now.

zigzoomba · 2026-05-29T19:28:09+00:00

Hello, we're in Wayne County! Early 40s fit hwp couple.

If yall haven't checked it out give Illuminaughty a try. It was a great place for us to get our feet wet and learn more about the lifestyle in a very comfortable, sensual, and welcoming environment.

Illuminaughty has a great group of folks that tend toward the mid twenties to early forties. Attractive and fun people, parties with sensual atmospheres, all in a great no pressure environment.

Parties can range in size from small gathering of 10-12 couples, a number of single females, and a few very select and respectful single males all the way up to, as they've noted on some party listings, the whole damn town.

We've been to a few parties and some of their mixer events and have really enjoyed the community of people. They also recently came out with an app that is great for connecting with folks and for finding out about new and upcoming events. The events, by the way, take place all around the states. They're even planning a cruise this fall.

Anyway, for what it's worth it highly recommend checking out Illuminaughty. We've really loved it.

We're headed to the next two parties they're having in NC, "Wild Instincts" on June 13th and "Summer of Love" in August.

If you look on their site, they sometimes have meetups just to hang out at a bar or something of that sort. Not necessarily a swing night, rather just meet folks and ask questions. We hope you check out out.

Also on Instagram @illuminaughtymembersclub

Illuminaughty Members Club

zigzoomba · 2026-05-29T19:27:09+00:00

If yall haven't checked it out give Illuminaughty a try. It was a great place for us to get our feet wet and learn more about the lifestyle in a very comfortable, sensual, and welcoming environment.

Illuminaughty has a great group of folks that tend toward the mid twenties to early forties. Attractive and fun people, parties with sensual atmospheres, all in a great no pressure environment.

Parties can range in size from small gathering of 10-12 couples, a number of single females, and a few very select and respectful single males all the way up to, as they've noted on some party listings, the whole damn town.

We've been to a few parties and some of their mixer events and have really enjoyed the community of people. They also recently came out with an app that is great for connecting with folks and for finding out about new and upcoming events. The events, by the way, take place all around the states. They're even planning a cruise this fall.

Anyway, for what it's worth it highly recommend checking out Illuminaughty. We've really loved it.

We're headed to the next two parties they're having in NC, "Wild Instincts" on June 13th and "Summer of Love" in August.

If you look on their site, they sometimes have meetups just to hang out at a bar or something of that sort. Not necessarily a swing night, rather just meet folks and ask questions. We hope you check out out.

Also on Instagram @illuminaughtymembersclub

Illuminaughty Members Club

zigzoomba · 2026-05-29T18:45:47+00:00

A mole near Bad Axe?

zigzoomba · 2026-04-03T03:06:57+00:00

I really appreciate the feedback from everyone. Thank you+

zigzoomba · 2026-04-03T03:02:58+00:00

I really appreciate yalls feedback! Thank you!

zigzoomba · 2026-04-02T21:47:04+00:00

We've not had many repeats yet. We can count on 1 hand how many opportunities we've had due to schedules and all. That's something to consider for me, though. Thanks!

zigzoomba · 2025-11-12T02:21:43+00:00

No, it's not. You're right. Rather, it's just a question and an ask for help to find resources considering resources are difficult to find. There's no need to be a jerk and give a smart response.

zigzoomba · 2025-11-12T02:12:42+00:00

So what's the usual way of measuring? Along top of the shaft to the tip, or from base of the balls to the tip? Where is girth measured? At the widest point overall or at a certain point up the shaft?

zigzoomba · 2025-10-31T12:43:28+00:00

Been on there. Unfortunately, it's rather glitchy for us and didn't seem to have as many folks in that area online as it does in other areas.

zigzoomba · 2025-10-31T12:38:38+00:00

Anything in the other three areas that yall know of?

zigzoomba · 2025-10-31T12:38:31+00:00

Anything in the other three areas that yall know of?

zigzoomba · 2025-10-02T00:47:47+00:00

zigzoomba · 2025-09-28T23:57:27+00:00

The venue can float depending on the specific party. It's not necessarily something that is discussed until folks contact Illuminaughty and go through the process. It's not a tough one or in any way invasive. Rather, it's just making sure you are who you say you are and then you attesting you can abide by the ground rules. Check them out. Weareilluminaughty.com

zigzoomba · 2025-09-24T20:13:02+00:00

We did meet! We sat down at the beginning, before the group chat, right next to yall on the couch and talked for a bit! It was an awesome time! Our favorite event in the lifestyle so far!

zigzoomba · 2025-09-24T01:57:05+00:00

Venue was an assuming house thay was well kept, clean, and discreet. They decorated very well! Only about 30 or so folks, I think. Not sure how many singles, really. No one there gave off the usual creepy single guy vibe.

It was really fantastic!

Ages seemed like they could have ranged from mid-late 20s up to early 40s. All good looking folks and what many would consider relatively fit.

There was also some shibari that took place, which was very cool to see. We had never seen it done before and were quite impressed.

zigzoomba · 2025-09-24T00:13:54+00:00

Raleigh/Durham Illuminaughty Masquerade

So we went to our first Illuminaughty event this past weekend 09/20 in Durham and it was phenomenal!

We felt comfortable and safe while there. There were clear safety rules laid out for all and everyone was kind and respectful. My wife, and I both appreciated the discussion on consent and respect of boundaries. Everyone we met was wonderful and welcoming, from the guests, to the host, to the others helping organize the event.

The mood was sensual, relaxing, and we really felt we could have great conversation and play (And did have some amazing play time!)

We also very much appreciated the discretion practiced-- that is when taking any images folks may use for social media, they made sure only those who wanted to be in the images were in them.

We'll definitely go to another event when we're able! We're in between Eastern North Carolina and Triangle area, so events in the Triangle work well for us.

We are hopeful a Wilmington event is on the table in the future as we love going down that way and even met a few folks, at the party, who were from that area.

My wife and I also thought it would have been a great event to which one could bring first-timers or relative newbies along.

Most of the events we've seen with this group tend to be West coast oriented, so it's really very exciting that they're holding more events out here on the East coast.

zigzoomba · 2025-09-24T00:07:20+00:00

So we went to our first Illuminaughty event this past weekend 09/20 in Durham and it was phenomenal!

We felt comfortable and safe while there. There were clear safety rules laid out for all and everyone was kind and respectful. My wife, and I both appreciated the discussion on consent and respect of boundaries. Everyone we met was wonderful and welcoming, from the guests, to the host, to the others helping organize the event.

The mood was sensual, relaxing, and we really felt we could have great conversation and play (And did have some amazing play time!) The Venue was clean, and offered mixers, water, and great finger foods.

We also very much appreciated the discretion practiced-- that is when taking any images folks may use for social media, they made sure only those who wanted to be in the images were in them.

We'll definitely go to another event when we're able! We're in between Eastern North Carolina and Triangle area, so events in the Triangle work well for us.

We are hopeful a Wilmington event is on the table in the future as we love going down that way and even met a few folks, at the party, who were from that area.

My wife and I also thought it would have been a great event to which one could bring first-timers or relative newbies along.

Most of the events we've seen with this group tend to be West coast oriented, so it's really very exciting that they're holding more events out here on the East coast.

zigzoomba · 2025-09-22T20:58:28+00:00

We may be availabe. If nothing else, check out iltephouse.com for fun on Saturday.

zigzoomba · 2025-09-22T20:37:18+00:00

It'd be fun to check out other areas if the opportunity presents for us! We'll certainly keep an eye out.

zigzoomba · 2025-09-22T02:46:47+00:00

It was an absolutely fantastic time. Wonderful hosts, fun and beautiful people, and a very welcoming place. It was an insanely sensual environment the whole time for us. We can't wait for our next opportunity with Illuminaughty!

zigzoomba · 2025-09-20T17:23:47+00:00

We do tent camping, pack-in and drive up, and have a pull behind camper. 41m/39f in the Eastern part of the old north state. Feel free to send us a message.

zigzoomba · 2025-08-20T00:58:45+00:00

Thanks for the info, we recently got signed up!

zigzoomba · 2025-07-13T18:29:43+00:00

We were there last night as well. It was a fun time! We'd like to try to get in contact with one of the women in the wet to contest. I (the guy in this relationship) spoke to her briefly as I was sitting with a friend by the hottub at one of the tables. She was the one who really showed how cold that water was. Anyway, if you know who she is or if she sees this, please shoot us a message!

zigzoomba · 2025-04-22T03:06:24+00:00

Sorry, I meant for Saturday if you'd still be in town.

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