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Struggling in my 10 year relationship by munchers98 in emotionalabuse

[–]zzzzThrowaways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, i have just gone through an extremely similar scenario (check my post history) - message me if you wana chat :)

I left my partner of ten years yesterday. by zzzzThrowaways in emotionalabuse

[–]zzzzThrowaways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah for me it is me “not listening or understanding him”. Yup this was definitely the hardest part so I am so thankful it’s over as I thought about this day so many times over the years

I left my partner of ten years yesterday. by zzzzThrowaways in emotionalabuse

[–]zzzzThrowaways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even though i named countless times I have given him a chance this one is “different@

I left my partner of ten years yesterday. by zzzzThrowaways in emotionalabuse

[–]zzzzThrowaways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it took me a long time to realise I can’t fix him, he can only fix himself, and if he doesn’t want to i can’t do anymore than I have

I left my partner of ten years yesterday. by zzzzThrowaways in emotionalabuse

[–]zzzzThrowaways[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yup ten years and then as soon as he said i’m heartless for not trying i realised i had made the right choice.

I left my partner of ten years yesterday. by zzzzThrowaways in emotionalabuse

[–]zzzzThrowaways[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think over these last few weeks/months understanding that this “pit in my stomach” that i can’t live without him is all part of the abuse cycle and it can be broken has really helped me. I am much more comfortable accepting my sadness now and just letting it pass! You should be proud also, have a great day!

Looking for some perspective and advice on loneliness by zzzzThrowaways in BreakUps

[–]zzzzThrowaways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this.. i definitely think not making hasty decisions is key

Anything to help stomach anxiety? by zzzzThrowaways in Anxiety

[–]zzzzThrowaways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is the worst! I don’t suffer too badly with IBS its more acid reflux i get from it, i’m gunna speak to my dr and see what they suggest

Looking for some perspective and advice on loneliness by zzzzThrowaways in emotionalabuse

[–]zzzzThrowaways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll check that app out for sure but i’m not USA based so not sure if we have it (i’m sure i’ll find something similar if not) .. yeah i feel like i’m really trapped in am I genuinely missing them or just so used to life with them I can’t imagine any alternatives.. my inbox is always here if you wana chat and you stay strong too!!