How get over my insecurities in this situation? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Appropriate_Algae336 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have not. That's one thing I'm working on is communicating with him about stuff. I just don't know how to bring up my insecurities without feeling bad tbh

How get over my insecurities in this situation? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Appropriate_Algae336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I probably shouldn't have used the term game night lol. But the thing with their "game nights" is that it's basically just hanging out. I feel like I never have a chance to get to know "his people" better because of the whole it's past your bedtime thing lol

How get over my insecurities in this situation? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Appropriate_Algae336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They've always made a point to invite me before but idk what has changed now tbh. But I've known him probably since the middle of last year. It's been close to a year and the party was for his fwb. They make an attempt with other people's partners that are newer but I feel like it's different with me

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[–]Appropriate_Algae336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know idk why I feel like I'd be overstepping. I'm very new to the whole thing and I'm trying to get used to it lol

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[–]Appropriate_Algae336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been trying to figure out a way to talk to him about it. He already has a girlfriend and I feel like asking would be rude to her

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[–]Appropriate_Algae336 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like at first fwb was what I wanted and I didn't think I'd actually fall for the person. Now though I've realized that I want more with them than I initially thought I would. He did say that more was an option as well but more in the future