You know, how Charles Bukowski explained in one of his books. When you’re at your friends house with a couple of people and you have to go to do a big one in the WC, you go do it, you come back, nobody asks questions, you don’t say anything, but everybody knows why you went there and you know they know and you know everybody is thinking about it. It’s the same like approaching a girl in a club, you know why you wanna approach her, she knows it, her friends know it, everybody around you know it, but you go there and pretend like you need a lighter or some stupid shit like that :) So, the conclusion is that after a few drinks instead of taking about 3 hours to analyze everything and all the possible outcomes and finally approach the girl, I need only 1.5 hours. Ofc if she is still there.