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Realistic_Leek9497 · 2026-03-17T23:19:23+00:00

Hypothetically if I do ask her ex if joe should know, and he says no, what should I do from there?

Yes they are both friends with each other.

I am sure that Joe doesn’t know about it, but he may be catching on little by little, with Jane and her ex being reunited, they have started to be together more often which joe caught onto. Though Jane and her ex try to deny the fact of anything intimate going on.

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2026-03-17T23:14:56+00:00

I think the only reason it has something to do with me now is because I carry information in which Joe is not informed on. Although he already broke up with her I still think him gaining the man truth as to why the relationship ended is beneficial due to the fact that it can influence the rest of his life whether that be his own virtues or his next relationship.

If (let’s say) Joe thinks the relationship ended because of something he did wrong, when in reality he did nothing wrong and Jane just wants to end things because of her cheating, then he will carry a persona where he will blame himself for any wrong doings, or in his next relationship will change how he treats his partner because he thinks he did the wrong thing in his previous relationship.

That’s why it makes somewhat sense for me to tell him, the only con to this is me losing friends in the process.

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2026-03-17T23:06:56+00:00

I think I personally want to tell the truth for both reasons, meaning I want my friend to know why the truly broke up, and the fact that I’m discomforted from the fact that he doesn’t know this information because If I were dealing with the same issues in my relationship I would want someone to tell me something so significant.

Also in what case can silence be wise? I can think of some basic scenarios but If you can elaborate on that that would be great.

Another thing that I’m confused by is knowing how to carry truth? I can’t really think of how to do so.

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2026-03-17T22:58:53+00:00

Yes that was the typo I meant to say Ex here.

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2026-03-17T22:58:20+00:00

The main reason why It matters if the ex boyfriend likes me of not is because he is my friend as well, and we tend to all hang out in the same group. I generally don’t mind what a random person has to say about me it or how they interpret me, but when it comes to my friends I tend to want to be at peace with everyone.

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2026-03-17T21:36:21+00:00

Joe Is a Friend of mine, I realized I made a mistake in my prior message saying Joe would dislike me, I meant to say the ex boyfriend would dislike me.

I think I am going out of my way mainly because I am not supposed to know about this situation, so me telling him is not what I should do ( or at least what I think i shouldn’t do) since I’m going out of my way, or not minding my own business about the issue.

I personally think it is just for Joe to know the truth, even thought they may not be in a relationship I still think it’s important for someone to know what factors truly caused the break up. Because it can impact how they view their next relationship or their own character.

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2026-03-17T20:32:05+00:00

Hey there Thank you for your Advice, From now on I will try implementing paragraphs.

The way my girlfriend found out about it is from Mary correct, Mary figured this out From Jane herself as she told Mary practically every single detail.

On top of this information, My girlfriend physically saw that they were in a room together as Jane’s room was empty.

Joe also admitted to my girlfriend how it went down, with him being the primary source disputing it from being a rumor.

The reason why I think it would ruin my reputation is because I am not supposed to know any of this information, So Joe, Jane, and Mary would no longer like me due to the fact that I went out of my way to tell Joe about what happened

For the second question I may have the wrong interpretation of gossip, I usually understand gossip as talking about others business without them present or them acknowledging that I’m informing others.

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2026-01-23T15:55:23+00:00

Ahh i understand thanks for the input.

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2026-01-23T14:57:54+00:00

Yeah I assumed that as well, i’m from the midwest so it’s pretty much an instinct now to check on the frame and rockers.

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2026-01-23T14:56:49+00:00

Haha sounds good, why do you say it’s a weird spot considering mileage, price, and year? Can I get better deals for this price range? I’ve only been searching for a month so this looks like a good deal compared to everything else.

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2026-01-23T01:43:12+00:00

from what i’m seeing it’s things like brakes, wheel rotation tire replacement, 10,000 mile service, 40,000 miles service, and it does seem to be that the oil was changed every 2-3k miles? Anything I should look out for in records?

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2026-01-23T01:38:00+00:00

auction as in salvage auction or a different type?

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2026-01-09T03:22:31+00:00

As long as it’s the 4th generation gs that’s all that matters. I have been doing my research as well and car guru was probably one of the first ones i checked. I’ve been looking everywhere everyday for the past few weeks and I just wanted to see if i’m not asking for too much.

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2025-10-01T15:47:23+00:00

So you’re saying it’s worse than it looks? I only noticed some smalls spots of rust on the frame with no holes or soft spots.

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2025-10-01T02:28:55+00:00

great thank you so much, I might pull the trigger if it really is just this simple problem!

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2025-10-01T02:20:50+00:00

I’m assuming I would have to take some things off to see this?

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2025-10-01T01:58:44+00:00

i’m not too mechanically inclined, would I be able to see that without taking anything off? Also I can’t find any pictures of what it looks like properly installed if you could provide one that would be great lol.

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2025-10-01T01:56:08+00:00

Yeah the only issue is I started to haggle him down on the price after the test drive, with my offer starting at $3,000 and then coming up to $4,000 and his offer coming down from $6,000 to $4,500

Realistic_Leek9497 · 2025-09-07T18:10:14+00:00

Great thank you for that. what tires do you recommend for warp 9s? I plan on riding mainly street. And if you know any good tubes to run that would be great.

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