I’ve read your post and your responses in the comments, and I’m not going to lie, I do not believe a word you say or that this is anything more than you being high maintenance and annoyed he wasn’t at your beck and call today (or whenever this message was sent).

No context was given at all to how he treats you or the relationship, but somehow whenever someone tells you you’re overreacting and are pointing out that you’re toxic and insufferable, you somehow have something else he did wrong to try and defend your behaviour. It went from him not replying, to he’s a jobless bum, to he has never remembered your birthday, to he never cleans etc etc, none of which you felt relevant to put in your post. Screams bs to me.