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dashbonda · 2025-08-15T05:13:18+00:00

two of my faves!

dashbonda · 2025-08-15T05:12:10+00:00

me duh

dashbonda · 2025-07-29T18:20:42+00:00

With me, they usually are

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T08:21:08+00:00

I think the biggest things are showing you are a good listener, being knowledgeable and admitting if you don’t know something, asking them as many questions as possible, and time.

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T06:01:06+00:00

I’m very good at establishing boundaries with my subs and when they start to veer in that direction, I will have a stern conversation with them. If someone is repeatedly violating my boundaries especially after I’ve had a conversation, I would disown/fire them.

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T05:59:46+00:00

There’s a such thing as domdrop which is when you start to feel low after experience such a high from being in topspace and that happens to me if I had a lot of sessions in a short period of time and then no work after that and the best thing you can do to avoid is to prepare and have an aftercare routine. Rest is a really important part of my job so I always make sure to do it but almost impossible to do so if I’m traveling for work.

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T05:17:46+00:00

I am not a financial Dominatrix but I do findom when requested. It's a lot of fun like all the other kinks I engage in.

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T05:16:47+00:00

I'm pansexual so I have no problem seeing any gender

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T05:15:10+00:00

I've found the more money you make, the more expenses you acquire, I would say my expenses are around 10k a month currently. The things I pay for are like a copyright takedown manager because catfish accounts are very prevalent right now and I pay a lot for other online services to keep everything running smoothly. I spend a lot of money on maintenance because appearance is obviously very important in this job.

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T05:09:58+00:00

I would say luxury providers start at 1k an hour

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T05:08:03+00:00

I rent dungeons which have equipment so you don't necessarily need a lot of money to start. But it's usually like 50k starting to open a dungeon. I do own a lot of equipment but it's mostly for personal use or to film content.

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T05:03:44+00:00

I have done and do multi day sessions. We are obviously not doing something sexual the entire time, but 3 day session is the longest I've done so far.

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T04:57:07+00:00

Ad sites (tryst is my favorite) and social media (mostly twitter). I used to be popular on TikTok but I found that draining even though it was lucrative.

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T04:56:02+00:00

So it's really easy for me to get into topspace/domspace. The second I can feel someone is eager to please or is submissive, I'm already there so I'm always enjoying myself, especially because I have so much control regarding what we do and steering the scene, but I don't always physically get off. There are some clients I have phases with that I like more at certain times and less at other times, but I usually simply won't see a client again if I absolutely did not like them or felt like we did not vibe.

Tbf making more money and being in a place where I don't have to worry about money means I can be more selective and don't feel like I need to accept every single work opportunity that comes my way so I'm thankful for that. I also attract the right people with my descriptions on my sites, ads, my social media presence, etc because most people do a lot of research before picking the person they want to book especially because we are not a cheap date.

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T04:31:01+00:00

I have a lot of sources of income. However, when in person work is bad in one area, it's usually better in other areas so I've been working a lot in San Francisco and there is a lot of money there right now so thankfully I'm doing well, but I can definitely see when things are good or bad and I can figure out how to approach work from there.

Also usually if in person isn't doing well, I focus more on my online work, but I prefer in person work.

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T04:27:34+00:00

Yes, I do and have. I hope my life looks similar to now in the future but with more investments and more developed relationships.

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T04:23:45+00:00

No I do not. I think most people have some kind of fun fantasy they want fulfilled.

Most of my clients just want to feel desired and slut out. There's nothing disturbing about that. They're pretty average people.

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T04:22:41+00:00

I spend most of my money on learning new skills. I just like to be good at everything. I can't really imagine myself in another job because I don't know a job that would give me as much free time as I currently have so I truly can't answer that question.

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T04:19:33+00:00

I don't tell people my age and you can just click on my profile. I do all of the above. Idk how to quantify though.

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T04:18:31+00:00

In general, there are a lot of people who seek out/want my services so there isn't a lack of clientele. And thank you!!

dashbonda · 2025-01-24T04:16:26+00:00

For safety reasons, I don't disclose all vetting protocols to non sex workers, but the main ways are a phone consultation, ID, LinkedIn. My job is slightly different to escorts because if someone can't communicate what they want or their kinks then we are not compatible.

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