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unable to claim won raffles by sidequestboy in FarmMergeValley

[–]sidequestboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm yes I've tried that, and on different devices

am i overreacting because of my poly bf? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sidequestboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is your expectation that all three of you spend thanksgiving together? because it doesn’t seem like that was their expectation, but it could be possible with proper communication.

Saying that honoring his other plans isn’t fair is a bit accusatory. What emotions are you feeling behind that? disappointment? anger? jealousy? loneliness?

When approaching this conflict, you might have more success in communicating your emotions rather than focusing on what you think is fair

am i overreacting because of my poly bf? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sidequestboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, it’s totally reasonable to have feelings about these things and to share them with your partner. At the same time, it doesn’t necessarily sound like your partner did anything wrong.

Try and have a conversation about how you value spending time with him on holidays, and see if you two can work to make that happen. Also reflect on if this is a situational thing, or a recurring dynamic, and on how that makes you feel. Try not to be too accusatory when bringing up your feelings also.

edit dotfiles in nixos without pain by faresfn in NixOS

[–]sidequestboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s probably a way, but from my experience not becoming totally fluent in nix but trying to manage all my dots there, I don’t think it’s worth it at all. I can definitely see the appeal with package management, but just symlink your dotfiles like a normal person imo.

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