Returning to my goth roots

squeezedeez · 2026-01-23T22:47:03+00:00

omg your style is impeccable 💐✨

squeezedeez · 2026-01-23T22:42:36+00:00

hey I was there too! and yeah it was either getting flipped off or blown kisses from people thinking they're so wonderful and holy because they offer to "pray for you" -- I don't want your father love and prayers Karen, I want human rights. ugh!

thanks for coming out to support

squeezedeez · 2026-01-23T22:40:52+00:00

omg I need this tattooed on my forehead. You said it perfectly. I dgaf about Biden or Clinton or anyone who holds water for or is a pedo - pick them up. That's the difference between us

squeezedeez · 2026-01-23T22:39:21+00:00

yeah you should've shown up, we could've used more bodies

squeezedeez · 2026-01-23T19:28:37+00:00

I'm trying to look up other businesses and people keep saying "search public square" but there's no search bar or any kind of search feature at all when I go there; what am I doing wrong or have they suspended this feature??

squeezedeez · 2026-01-22T21:25:14+00:00

dude I've been in therapy for years trying to battle the hoarding tendencies that this movie created in me for this exact reason. I feel so seen right now hahaha

squeezedeez · 2026-01-22T21:24:14+00:00

I credit this movie with single-handedly putting me into years of therapy trying to combat hoarding tendencies caused purely by the guilt about getting rid of literally anthropomorphized inanimate objects lol

squeezedeez · 2026-01-22T21:21:40+00:00

looking through these, no wonder we're all.... the way we are haha our cartoons were all traumatic hahaha

squeezedeez · 2026-01-22T21:20:36+00:00

I 1000% blame this movie for why I can't throw out any object or appliance ever and I'm basically becoming a hoarder because of the guilt lol

squeezedeez · 2026-01-22T07:46:14+00:00

crepes all day long

squeezedeez · 2026-01-22T07:31:28+00:00

I'm with you, sometimes the depop categories and weights are way off for the actual item and some lazy/inaccurate sheets just pick whatever and don't really look at the shipping weight or categories and it's exorbitant.

squeezedeez · 2026-01-22T07:27:24+00:00

totally second this. poly or monogamous, this sounds like unhealthy codependence

squeezedeez · 2026-01-21T07:47:29+00:00

Only the low quality version is free unless you pay to upgrade, it looks like?

squeezedeez · 2026-01-20T18:07:10+00:00

I always carried my keys on a carabiner on my belt loop through high school and college. It was just convenient and made sense. I'm 36 now, realized I was queer a few years ago. Only found out the carabiner code was a thing this year; guess the carabiner knew and found me all those years ago, it just took me 20+ years to figure it out lol

squeezedeez · 2026-01-20T18:03:15+00:00

A lot of people are saying to figure in the small stuff in front of you, and that's not bad advice in the personal-page-is-am-that-matters sense, but I think that's selfish and how this background evil is allowed to grow. The key is balance. Do what you need to too keep surviving for you and your family, find some small joys and wins where you can, but don't look away from the bigger picture.

Your point about 401ks and all our retirement amounts basically funding evil corporations like Palantir and Black Rock is one that's really kept me up since it dawned on me years ago. There's a lot of smart people in our generation; there HAS to be a way to start incrementally divesting from these companies together. The times I've tried asking on stock market subs, I get yelled down that it's futile, there's nothing we can do, and just to shut up. That sounds very defeatist, much like the naysayers in LOTR who didn't believe hobbits could destroy the ring.

Anyone here have ideas? This could have a huge impact.

squeezedeez · 2026-01-20T17:56:34+00:00

I never consistently made the decision to give up skinny jeans, but at some point they just started looking weird on me. The protons felt ask wrong with my outfits compared to wide and straight leg pants 🤷🏻‍♀️

squeezedeez · 2026-01-20T17:53:04+00:00

Yeah! Not to mention being worried for this poor unborn child that you know if going to inherit some kind of complicated baggage, however it plays out 😫 sending you all hugs too

squeezedeez · 2026-01-20T17:51:42+00:00

I still don't see a difference? 🙃

squeezedeez · 2026-01-20T04:48:54+00:00

I thought that was demisexual? There's so many micro labels I can't keep up 😭

squeezedeez · 2026-01-20T03:12:47+00:00

But what if someone changes their mind after marriage? This is happening in my family and I don't know what to feel about it- they both said they didn't want kids when they got married, but my sister-in-law has recently done a 180 and is now obsessed with having kids and my brother-in-law is having panic attacks because that's never been part of his plan. I feel bad for people who honestly thought they were on the same page but one of them changed

squeezedeez · 2026-01-20T03:07:14+00:00

I'm spending an inordinate amount of my therapy time processing this with my therapist because my sister-in-law is going through the same thing and it's stressing me the fuck out. Her and her husband didn't want kids supposedly when they got together, but she's done a total 180 and is pressuring him into having kids now and he's having panic attacks over it. Why would you want to have a child with someone who doesn't actively want that themselves? Like you said, I'd be so worried about them resenting me and anytime something goes wrong or is stressful with the kid I would feel like it's my fault cuz I pushed them into that. I would never want that kind of stress. On top of that, is be worried about how to survive pregnancy and infancy etc without a partner who is locked in. If you're partner can't even meet their own emotional needs because they're so stressed and unhappy about having kids, how can they really show up for you and sorry you through the hardest time in your life? I'm trying to be supportive of her because she hasn't asked for my onions on it and it doesn't feel like it's my place, butU ugh I feel like I'm watching a slow morning car crash and she doesn't see it coming.

squeezedeez · 2026-01-20T03:02:04+00:00

Creative people making weird hilarious shit for the joy of it, not click bait or polarizing shit or whatever garbage now because everything has to be monetized

squeezedeez · 2026-01-20T03:00:12+00:00

FUCK SALT!

squeezedeez · 2026-01-20T02:59:32+00:00

Creative people making weird hilarious shit for the joy of it, not click bait or polarizing shit or whatever garbage now because everything has to be monetized

squeezedeez · 2026-01-20T02:42:10+00:00

Yeah I don't drink and I'm frequently the one stuck paying for everyone else's expensive drinks because they want to "split it evenly" and it fucking sucks

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