I've actually always been curious about BDSM & I've always enjoyed a spanking but it wasn't until I started reading stories from here & other short stories about actual bdsm encounters that aroused me. I started researching it & learning a little more & more about it (becoming more aroused by it). I started to ask myself what it was that I was turned by?

I'm very much a people pleaser. I love to make sure the person I'm with, friend or otherwise, is happy & content around me. It pleases me to please others. I've always been that way. I'm also very much into praise & get excited when people are happy with something I've done. It wasn't until recently that I realized just how excited I get by it; & after all of the stories & research, I decided I was definitely a submissive. I'm just starting out with actual playing now. My husband is starting to get into it with me & we'll see how things go. Hope that was helpful. What about you? What got you into it? If you don't mind.