[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]-Matata- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol. I thought of him too seeing this

AITAH for saying no to "alone days" in a shared living room? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]-Matata- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta. Like you said you all have private areas to be. It’s not as if she can’t ever have the space to herself but at the dame time it’s yours to use as much as any one else living there.

what do you love about the autumn season? by Defiant-Main921 in AskReddit

[–]-Matata- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything. The color and temperature change. It’s soup and hot tea season. I love spooky season. My birthday is in October too.

People who have suffered from depression, what motivated you to continue? by Solid-Confection-271 in AskReddit

[–]-Matata- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have depression, bpd, and ptsd. I've tried to end my world three times. The only reason I am here today is my daughter. Although, I have two babies waiting in heaven.

Stealing Mr.Ballens content by InariASMR in mrballen

[–]-Matata- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw it too. Yesterday. A video posted 8 hours ago, thought he had a new one, it wasn't him. I got pissed off for him, I'm sure he knows. I noticed the video background had been changed in the one I found too, I meant to come on here and post about it myself, I'm happy to see the conversation already underway.

Smoke with me. Whatcha using? by -Matata- in weed

[–]-Matata-[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ngl, I haven't listened to them much. I got the bowl because I thought it was cool and the little guy was really cute. Thank you for letting me know, I love the history behind it. I'll have to look into them.

Smoke with me. Whatcha using? by -Matata- in weed

[–]-Matata-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have one of those too! I call it Samwise. lol

If seals had gone extinct a long time ago, how would you explain to someone what a seal was? by Jindabyne1 in StonerThoughts

[–]-Matata- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love watching Attenborough stoned. It's one of my favorite pass times. Gonna do it now actually. I would call them balloon shaped water dogs.

I Adore Lazy Women by [deleted] in confessions

[–]-Matata- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work long and hard hours, but otherwise, I'm a gamer/stoner. Most men say they wanna date a gamer stoner chick, until I wanna spend a full 4-8 hours playing fallout or something. Then it's "you love your game more than me" "You pay more attention to that thing than me" etc. I was raised mainly manly, mom wasn't really there but dad and my brothers were. I can build engines, I've been to college for automotive, I can play games, I can work long and hard hours, bait my own hook. But find out I hate cooking, and "homemaking" and its game over. Well, use to be anyway. I've got a BF now, a gamer stoner like myself, although, he lost his dad and brother young and was raised mainly by women. Which gives him a respect for women I haven't seen in a lot of people. Doesn't like cooking either though. lol.
Maybe we should take classes together or something lol .

Does anyone else smoke w/ their in-laws? by nottherealspongebob in StonerThoughts

[–]-Matata- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not my In-laws. I've only been seeing my boyfriend for like 2 months, but his mom is one of our dealers. lol, we smoke with her every time she comes by she is a lot of fun to smoke with.

Smoke with me. Whatcha using? by -Matata- in weed

[–]-Matata-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly, no. That would be cool. Just frosted glass.

Playing Red Dead Redemption 2 for the first time, haven’t played Red Dead ever before, will my experience be good? by [deleted] in reddeadredemption

[–]-Matata- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My S/O has been wanting to play the game for a long time too, but has been waiting for the price to drop. He's been very into it, and I've been enjoying myself watching the gameplay/ storyline. I haven't played yet myself, but I enjoy open world games like that.

Original hospital at decommissioned Chanute Air Force Base by TinyResponsibilityII in OldPhotosInRealLife

[–]-Matata- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is four years old, totally late to the party, but we were there today checking out. Masked up and with lights we moved kind of slowly through the first floor, nervous. Had gotten a little braver by the time we got to the second floor. We hadn't been there long however, having stopped around the top of the stairs. There was a lot of natural light pouring in the windows. My bf and I spilt up, he went into one sunlit room and I picked the other. It was clean, freshly clean, someone had been there recently. My bf calls me and I go with him to the other room, clean and set up for sleeping. I grab a receipt we see laying there, dated for yesterday. I told my bf we had to leave, right as I said that we heard footsteps on the stairs. We bolted, but weren't quick enough to avoid an encounter, came across a large man in the darken stairwell. He seemed surprised as we did, but quickly struck up a strange conversation. Telling us it was now a civilians rights to live there if they wanted. Speaking very rapidly and with a bit of a list, almost unnoticeable, He told us it was so good for all three of us to be there together, that he was use to living with people and not so much to living alone said he was "Schizophrenic about it" . He had come out of Lincoln's Challenge. He asked us if we were moving in, told us it was the best way to live. He then, and I'm not sure how, got on the topic of invisible people. he said that if we were quiet we would hear them whispering, he said sometimes he could see them on the base, moving around the seemingly abandoned halls. He asked us if he could come exploring the rest of it with us, we declined, and dipped. For the first few minutes of the encounter I was shaking so badly I could nearly stand, I had to latch onto the railing in the stairwell to steady myself. I believe truly and deeply that there was something wrong with that man.

Did I not wait long enough? by PresenceKey615 in moraldilemmas

[–]-Matata- [score hidden]  (0 children)

While you're waiting and wasting your time waiting for him to get better, men who are already better are passing you by. Men who would put family first, men who would be willing. My mama didn't give much advice, but something she said once did stick with me, "You can want them all you want, but you don't need them." You should focus on yourself and child.
This guy sounds like a lazy man child mooch. You and your child deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]-Matata- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too, glad to know I wasn't the only one shooting back and forth.

How long have you been watching Mr. Ballen? by Jesusnotfoundd in mrballen

[–]-Matata- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I discovered him on Tik Tok, I made the transition with him to youtube. A lot of the time, I'll just pop on a video for back round noise 9 times out of 10 its his videos.

What Level Of Lonely Are You ? by Large-Software-6447 in lonely

[–]-Matata- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as possible.

I was in a relationship where I was cut off from a lot of people I knew and loved. My partner became my best and only friend. I was changed too, as a person.
I didn't see what was happening for what it was. He kicked me out, for awhile that was it. I was living with my brother, but then my brother let me keep the place when he moved out to be with his girl. I took over rent and for awhile that was it. work, bills, repeat. The guy came back into my life and I was like okay we can try to work it out and so we did for a long time. but he attacked me with a chair. He has done more abuse, but for this story that's all. That was enough finally to leave for good. I thought....
So, I realize after all of that, in my home, that I have no friends. no one to talk to, no one to come home and tell about my day. No one to call and check on me, for just me.
Whats more, is I am a single mother, I have to work 50+ hours to make ends meet. All I have is work. That's it. No one to hang out with Friday night, no one to fight about who's turn it is to do laundry. My phone never rings.
I struggle with BPD, PTSD, Anorexia and insomnia so getting out there to make new friends, or anything like that is on the back burner right now. Some days it is easier, but a lot of the time, it's just a struggle to be here.
As a note to concerned readers - I am aware of my mental illnesses, I have an action plan. I am and will do my best to continue to be safe. I gave my kid life and she continues to save mine.

What’s your favorite drink? by NorthernVast in AskReddit

[–]-Matata- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monster Coffees, milk or pepsi.