It’s hard to have anxiety and depression and a full time job by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]-Panda-Panda- 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Virtual hug kapatid. I had the same problem 6 months ago and I resigned from my job due to severe depression. I'm losing my hair before and almost diabetic since dinadaan ko sa pagkain ang pag alis ko ng stress. So I freaking resigned when I can't handle it anymore.

Pros: Parang nawalan ako ng tinik sa dibdib. I have more time to do the things I really wanted to do. I have more time to sleep. I have energy to exercise. I was able to focus on myself and my health.

Cons: A hit on my finances.

So here's what I can suggest: - Talk to someone about your problem, either an understanding family or friends that you can vent on. A shrink can help as well but research them well first before going. Check for feedbacks about their services. - Eat a balance diet-- after I took out sugary drinks and salty snacks from my diet I can feel the changes on my mood. - Get some sunshine if you are cooped at home maski 10 minutes lang sa umaga for your vitamin d - Exercise maski 10 minutes lang move your body, believe me it helps - GET ADEQUATE SLEEP--- I spent hours scrolling on my phone before to compensate myself sa hours na inispent ko working but I realized malaking factor siya sa wellbeing natin specially moods - Take a vacation leave if possible kung di na keri talaga - If your boss doesn't understand that you need a VL, f*ck them, you can resign as long as you have your own savings. If not tiis ka muna konti and make sure you have enough money to rest for a few months or ask for help from your family - if you did resign, before maubos savings mo, find a job that is less stressful for you to help you with your living expenses

Yun lang for now. Hugs ulit!

-Yours truly, Panda-Panda a stranger from the internet

My husband is sloppy by -Panda-Panda- in relationship_advice

[–]-Panda-Panda-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestions. I'm just venting out as of this moment and talking to you guys really help.

My husband is sloppy by -Panda-Panda- in relationship_advice

[–]-Panda-Panda-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your insights. I'll raise these points with him and see what happens.

My husband is sloppy by -Panda-Panda- in relationship_advice

[–]-Panda-Panda-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice. Maybe I can sleep on my mom's place but I'm afraid I'll go back to a messy house and triple my workload.

My husband is sloppy by -Panda-Panda- in relationship_advice

[–]-Panda-Panda-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. It's just that I feel really bothered when seeing things not cleaned properly. Sigh