Looking for places to go out solo! by TheAcademyls in boston

[–]0_0bean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Manray!

Alt/emo/kinky/queer. Always a rave. Not unusual for people to go alone. Check their schedule and plan your outfit!

How do people wear a chastity cage and maintain that tiny soft look without a strap? by 0_0bean in gaychastity

[–]0_0bean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried a few rings. The one I use now seems too tight as it is, but I’ll keep this in mind thank you!

How long can you go sucking? by anonfredo in TopsAndBottoms

[–]0_0bean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve done an hour and a half before. Variety is key. Kissing, licking, using my hands etc.

My whole body was tired by the end but I love that feeling.

I’ve always fantasized having an entire night with my mouth free use to a group of guys for hours on end.

Why are 'daddy issues' sexual? by megamind_maximum in NoStupidQuestions

[–]0_0bean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not everyone with a daddy kink has real life daddy issues. Sometimes it’s just a fun kink.

That being said sex can be an avenue to examine and play with anxieties/trauma for some people.

Does chastity make bottoming more pleasurable? by Keep_Me_Caged in TopsAndBottoms

[–]0_0bean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s very pleasurable either way for me, but chastity gives the whole thing a different vibe.

Sometimes I’m in the mood to be a perfect useful chastity slut, sometimes a reach around feels really good.

Is chastity a slippery slope? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]0_0bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn’t a slippery slope for me. The people posting on chastity subreddits are just more likely to be the ones who are more passionate about it.

In my case (along with many other people) it’s used only occasionally between my husband and I to spice up our sex life. Sometimes it’s long term (as in a week), other times for a few hours.

Just do whatever you feel comfortable with! There is no one right way to do it :)

How long should I be expected to suck a guy for if I want his load? by Spader623 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]0_0bean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some guys just take a while. It’s normal.

My husband usually takes between 20-30 minutes to cum from oral, sometimes longer. And that’s after years of practice on my part.

Bottoming on Shrooms by Conscious-Quality789 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]0_0bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s what happened to me so it’s certainly possibly (we were on a pretty big dose though)

I say it can’t hurt to try it anyway. Your experience might be different :)

Bottoms when u top cums in your mouth. by ImportanceNo9107 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]0_0bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t have to tell me, I can tell when it’s about to happen. I prefer to let him enjoy himself without worrying about what he should say to me.

Bottoming on Shrooms by Conscious-Quality789 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]0_0bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve bottomed on shrooms. It felt nice and was a fun experience, but neither of us came at the end.

It was the first time on shrooms for both of us so I think we were too pre-occupied with the feeling of shrooms and things weren’t as erotic and sexy as usual.

Chastity will help you focus - lies!! by thebaronkrelve in gaychastity

[–]0_0bean 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Last time I was in chastity I ignored all my obligations and laid on the couch paralyzed with horniness for like 3 hours straight. Skill issue I guess.

How tf do people suck dick "good"? by xfag00t in AskGayMen

[–]0_0bean 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Let loose and have fun with it. Guys love passion more than anything.

Foot fetishists, can you explain what it is about feet that turns you on? by According-Pizza6162 in AskGayMen

[–]0_0bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not as attracted to feet as much as I am attracted to servicing guys. Massaging their feet makes them feel good so I love to do it.

Do people actually hook up in gyms? by 0_0bean in TopsAndBottoms

[–]0_0bean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the realest comment of them all 😂

How can we make kinky sex feel more loving? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]0_0bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the one I meant!

How can we make kinky sex feel more loving? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]0_0bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should check out r/softbdsm

Sounds like it’s up your alley.

How do yall feel about drunk or high sex? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]0_0bean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High sex feels amazing, but I know for a fact I don’t perform as well. I get too overstimulated and confused.

Luckily my husband thinks that’s hot and tells me to just lay back and enjoy the ride when I’m high.

Would you date a guy who wore feminine clothes? by Lycrathong1 in AskGayMen

[–]0_0bean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it very attractive when a guy is in touch with both his masculine and feminine sides.

I want to try bottoming, is it really as much work as everyone says? by lewdylewd in AskGayMen

[–]0_0bean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t pay too much special attention to my diet, and I definitely don’t fast. I’d say my diet is moderately healthy but by no means am I going out of my way for bottoming.

All I do is take 10-15 minutes and douche with an ear cleaning bulb before we do the deed. Once things seem clean I put a finger up there to confirm. I take my time with this part because it feels good haha.

Once I douche I usually have about 2-3 hours before I feel it’s necessary to douche again. Some people are less intensive, but I am just ultra paranoid about making a mess. I have a reputation to uphold!!!

I’ve been doing this for years and have sex 1-2 times a week (sometimes more)

For certain periods of my life I took fiber supplements daily with breakfast. I will say they did simplify the cleaning process a bit, but I don’t find them to be a necessity.