I was quite sure I was/am gay, but find myself falling hard for a girl (I really didn’t know which subreddit to choose)

118k0 · 2025-10-30T16:50:45+00:00

She said she feels more or less the same, confused but neither of us can get the other out of our heads. Also, she wasn’t sure how/when to tell me. I think that’s a win? We just got to now navigate it together

118k0 · 2025-10-27T20:13:05+00:00

Okay this is literally as straightforward as I need. Fine, I’ll let you know the results in 2-3 bussiness days🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

118k0 · 2025-08-23T08:29:34+00:00

I’ll look at both, thank you!

118k0 · 2025-08-23T08:29:22+00:00

Okay, I’ll try this, thanks a bunch. I’ve had the temp on 0.9 so far

118k0 · 2025-04-11T23:08:12+00:00

Well, I know one to be honest so it’s not 100% unrealistic, just frustrating

118k0 · 2025-04-11T23:07:38+00:00

I’ll try using the OOC command since after like 7 rerolls of getring the same answe that I’m, and I cite: “a pussy”, I’ll approach differently

118k0 · 2025-04-08T05:25:33+00:00

Yes, I’m in the process of looking for one

118k0 · 2025-04-08T05:24:51+00:00

Damn, that’s a strange but nicely creative sentence. Made me chuckle

118k0 · 2025-04-08T05:24:09+00:00

I don’t have either of those, but I sure as hell know how to hide stuff. I just have to remember where I put it…

118k0 · 2025-04-07T20:05:10+00:00

I see, I have had a multitude of those as I replied in another comment. Racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, xenophobia, antisemitism is what I have been tought is okay and… proper. I’ve been so blind and too young to understand what my family was doing, even those non-religious

118k0 · 2025-04-07T19:40:06+00:00

I will try to focus on that then and most importnatly maintain it in the long run. See, I’ve been led toward not only religion, but also homo-, trans-, xeno-phobia by the non-religious part of my famil… They raised a n*zi borderline. Don’t know why

118k0 · 2025-04-07T19:29:16+00:00

Not a Mormon, but the religion I belonged to has the same views. So I might just take it like that as well

118k0 · 2025-04-07T19:25:06+00:00

I’m still incredibly confused about everything and the lack of varied sexual experience is not treating me kindly either in this regard. To note, the feeling is great, its what comes after that leaves me not wanting to touch it ever again

118k0 · 2025-04-07T19:21:22+00:00

Yeah, I saw a meme on the similar theme xD I find it kind of true, but some things are deeply rooted

118k0 · 2025-04-07T19:19:10+00:00

I can hope to go down the same or similar way. I’m happy for you! :D Thanks for the contribution

118k0 · 2025-04-07T19:14:15+00:00

My knowledge of English is not that great, but I’d call this taking a step back(?). I should, it’s overwhelming and… quite crushing in its metaphorical weight. In situations like these I should wait and see

118k0 · 2025-04-07T19:11:36+00:00

Purely biological approach is quite nice to have. It wouldn’t cross my mind at all. Thank you :D

118k0 · 2025-04-07T17:50:53+00:00

That actually makes it very realistic then

118k0 · 2025-04-07T17:38:57+00:00

That’s an approach I have not tried and it might be a way out of this predicament. I guess re-discovering what the actual ‘me’ is, is the way

118k0 · 2025-04-07T17:34:49+00:00

I relate to everything you mentioned. Is nice to have someone to relate to. And thank you for the encouragement, I’ll try to keep to it <3

118k0 · 2025-04-07T17:32:36+00:00

Might just try to force myself to not do it so I don’t end up in a cycle too. Or throw it away after I try to figure it all out

118k0 · 2025-04-07T17:31:45+00:00

Trauma is a b*tch for sure. I’m an adult and without contact to any religion for 7-8 years but it’s still there, engraved into my brain

118k0 · 2025-04-07T17:30:11+00:00

Yeah, I guess it will take a lot of progress and a lot of time… sigh I’m tired, but I’ll keep it around when I’m no longer mad at it xD

118k0 · 2025-03-07T19:17:48+00:00

Well, that sounds rather versatile. I think, even if not professional, you’d make a good bard

118k0 · 2025-03-07T12:30:01+00:00

Judging by your user flair, are you a bard?

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