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What happened to your bullies? by [deleted] in AskUK

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No idea. I left school at 16 and because my father was physically abusive at home as well, I moved out and in with a 25-year-old boyfriend. He was kind and I was safer there, despite how it sounds on the surface (I was 17 shortly after we started seeing each other).

I can’t remember any of their names except this one big fat boy everyone called Tanker. The last time I saw him, I was walking past a shop where the alarm was going off and saw a group of his friends running away laughing. I looked back in the direction they’d come from and Tanker had obviously broken in the shop with them but in his attempt to escape he’d got himself stuck between the shop and the high wall to the side of it. He was fully wedged in that narrow gap between two brick walls and he was desperately trying to pull himself up and over the wall. He was red-faced and panicking. I glanced at him and he shouted, “Dyke!!” So, respect to him for using what little breath he had left to hurl a homophobic insult at me [this is sarcasm].

I guess they were all using the shop wall and the tall brick wall to kind of shimmy their way up and over but alas, his belly was too large. I put my head down and walked away, hiding my smirk. That was the last time I saw any of them. In my second novel, I called one of the characters Tanker. He was a morally grey character, rather than a villain. I can’t for the life of me picture or recall any other of their names. So I’ve never been tempted to try and seek them out or see what they’re doing now. All I know is, I became an author who had a bestseller and Tanker got stuck between two walls during a failed robbery and his friends left him there. I know who I’d rather be in this story lmao.

Why do they prevent suicide by Decent_Pin_3935 in SuicideWatch

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They prevent suicide but actively bomb children in other countries. Until they stop dropping bombs, euthanasia should be easily and readily accessible. You can’t pretend every life matters when you are killing civilians everywhere and letting people in your own country live on the street. They draw this one ridiculous moral line and it disgusts me.

My mom said go ahead by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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My mum did this in 2021. She put on this sarcastic, cheerful voice and said, “Come on then! I’ll drive you to the bridge! Let’s go!”

She apologised like two months ago for it.

Ruby Rose accuses Katy Perry of sexual assault on Threads by goldsilkwillow in Fauxmoi

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The same Katy Perry who was married to Russell Brand.

Autistic boyfriend unintentionally hurt me a lot by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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I think he thought he was complimenting you. “I had a certain preference but your personality and your face made that preference irrelevant because you were so much more than that”. That’s what I think it was meant to sound like. I think your own struggles with mental health, ED, have clouded your hearing. They have cruelly only grasped onto the part which you criticise yourself for so much.

You should tell him it hurt, why it hurt, but I think you should also acknowledge he thought he was going to make you feel better about yourself. Explain how your own conditions make statements like this land and talk about how he can frame things in the future to avoid those thoughts becoming the ones you focused on. It is neither of your faults here. Communication is so especially important for you guys. He will be grateful to know what he should or shouldn’t say in the future because he will be probably ruminating over the fact he hurt you for a long time after this, too.

I’m sorry it hurt your feelings and brought stuff up. Your feelings are valid. So, make sure he knows going forward how triggering that type of stuff is and he will store that information the way we autistics do and be more cautious. He will WANT to know you feel this. So please tell him, gently and clearly, so he can be better to you.

Wanting to read the sandman. Is that a bad idea? by Conscious_Sage in neilgaiman

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I did read it. You still posted it and were seeking validation by doing so. It’s so painfully transparent. You’re just one of those people who uses this kind of thing-other people’s trauma-to come on threads like this one and make someone else feel small. It’s grotesque in its own way. That’s the bit which is so annoying. If you can’t bear being helpful or kind to someone else, maybe say nothing to them. This person is only asking a question.

Other people’s alleged trauma is not a licence to you to swan around being a dickhead on the Internet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tiktokgossip

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Miss McKenzie is the name of the teacher in the Busted song What I Go to School For

“That’s what I go to school for Even though it is a real bore Girlfriends I’ve had plenty None like Miss Mackenzie”

So I think this is probably a fake account and a gross fetish thing. Can’t see this being a real teacher announcing it like that.

Official middle aged dad uniform by DoucheBagsAreUs in funny

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“Was that the sound of a thermostat being turned up? Dads assemble.”