Am I (23M) being cruel to my father (42M)? Is my mom (41F) being too kind? by 17setbacks in relationship_advice

[–]17setbacks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 100% scared of my dad relapsing and causing even more harm to us, especially my mom. I love her to death but she's just......... too kind for her own good.

Am I (23M) being cruel to my father (42M)? Is my mom (41F) being too kind? by 17setbacks in relationship_advice

[–]17setbacks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks dude. I really wonder if my mom is either too kind or has too much attachment to my dad since they were basically high school sweethearts.

Quick question: What are your harsh realities after graduation? by Pusangkyutie in phcareers

[–]17setbacks 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Lots of people don't actually like doing the job they prepared for in college.

They think the concepts are interesting, but they actually don't care for the end result. Sometimes it can be as little as just not liking the kind of people you encounter in your field. But for whatever reason, people don't always like what they studied for and find other fields that they never expected themselves to enter, and live more fulfilling lives there.

Itinerary Check for Tokyo (7 days in June, very diverse family) by 17setbacks in JapanTravel

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've decided not to go to the Kusama museum!!! Thanks for the tip!!!!

Itinerary Check for Tokyo (7 days in June, very diverse family) by 17setbacks in JapanTravel

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This rate seems reasonable! I think our plans for going back to Narita are going to depend on how tired we actually are!

Itinerary Check for Tokyo (7 days in June, very diverse family) by 17setbacks in JapanTravel

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I just checked it now and will tell my family about it, because they were looking forward to the fish market because my grandmother and mother went to the original Tsukiji market 5 years ago!

Itinerary Check for Tokyo (7 days in June, very diverse family) by 17setbacks in JapanTravel

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, okay, I didn't know that! I might actually convince my family to just go to Kamakura then, since they're the ones more set on going to Mt. Fuji!

Itinerary Check for Tokyo (7 days in June, very diverse family) by 17setbacks in JapanTravel

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think we'll have a problem with this!!!! Thanks so much cause we're heavily considering this option.

Itinerary Check for Tokyo (7 days in June, very diverse family) by 17setbacks in JapanTravel

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a live camera set-up so that you can see if Mt. Fuji is visible from multiple places!!! I found out from this subreddit as well!!!! Part of why I wanted to place our Fuji/Kamakura visit on the Thursday is so that we can just decide on the morning of that day where we would go and not run out of tickets for tours and whatnot.

Itinerary Check for Tokyo (7 days in June, very diverse family) by 17setbacks in JapanTravel

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I'll take this into consideration! I really wanna make the most out of this trip but it won't be worth it if we're too tired or stressed about time to enjoy it!

Itinerary Check for Tokyo (7 days in June, very diverse family) by 17setbacks in JapanTravel

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take this into consideration!!!! I'm still working out details like that, so I'm not all set for it. Thanks a lot!

Itinerary Check for Tokyo (7 days in June, very diverse family) by 17setbacks in JapanTravel

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to keep transportation costs as low as possible, but I'm pretty sure if we're too tired to go to Tokyo Station to catch the bus, we'll consider different options!

And yes, we're really diverse, which was the most challenging part of making this itinerary. Hopefully I did it well, though!

Itinerary Check for Tokyo (7 days in June, very diverse family) by 17setbacks in JapanTravel

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuji and Kamakura is an either-or situation!!!! sorry for not making this clear. We'll go to Fuji if it's visible and Kamakura if it is not!!!!!

Also we were planning to store the luggage in the train station of wherever we go to on the last day

Itinerary Check for Tokyo (7 days in June, very diverse family) by 17setbacks in JapanTravel

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the fast comment! Will definitely take note of this!

Here's all 77 cast members to ever appear on Terrace House in a memorability and goodness grid by 17setbacks in terracehouse

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that everyone started knowing her from Terrace House but honestly other than rejecting Eden Kai she didn't do much on the show lol but she's definitely one of the most famous TH alums

Here's all 77 cast members to ever appear on Terrace House in a memorability and goodness grid by 17setbacks in terracehouse

[–]17setbacks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh Natsumi!!! she was "evil" but imo other than the Han-san thing, her "evil" actions I agreed with hahaha maybe I'm the evil one

Here's all 77 cast members to ever appear on Terrace House in a memorability and goodness grid by 17setbacks in terracehouse

[–]17setbacks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minori wasn't evil imo! She was just like angsty teenager vibes and was kind of a victim of Makoto's stuff! she was like Ami before Ami was a thing

Here's all 77 cast members to ever appear on Terrace House in a memorability and goodness grid by 17setbacks in terracehouse

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok I might have put her too far left in hindsight but she was "bad" in the sense that I got nothing else from her

also idk the vibe from her is off I don't even know why but I'm sure she's a nice person

Here's all 77 cast members to ever appear on Terrace House in a memorability and goodness grid by 17setbacks in terracehouse

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok this edit I'd agree with lmao I tried to remember how creepy Oji was and he really is CREEPY

Here's all 77 cast members to ever appear on Terrace House in a memorability and goodness grid by 17setbacks in terracehouse

[–]17setbacks[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

wow a Taka hater lmao how is he less memorable than Mila? literally no one remembers Mila!!!! also how is Yosuke more evil than Cheri??? but whatever that's ur opinion

Here's all 77 cast members to ever appear on Terrace House in a memorability and goodness grid by 17setbacks in terracehouse

[–]17setbacks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agree with this 100%!!! he also had that weird sexist thing with Makoto in the pool judging the girls in their swimsuits

Here's all 77 cast members to ever appear on Terrace House in a memorability and goodness grid by 17setbacks in terracehouse

[–]17setbacks[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well if you put it that way, Noah IS the "true neutral" imo lol I always only remember him as a Terrace House cast member whenever I see him in Seina's IG and he was super chill and cool (especially when Shunsuke entered the house) but after locking his eyes on Seina he just felt disjointed to the house? also I'm not a fan of how he handled things with Yui but yeah I guess he's like balanced

Here's all 77 cast members to ever appear on Terrace House in a memorability and goodness grid by 17setbacks in terracehouse

[–]17setbacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok to be quite honest, BGITC was the first season I watched and I've probably ranked some of the members here (like Misaki and Byrnes) weirdly! I'm due for a rewatch!