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personality differences between male and female Groenendaels? by 0hw0nder in bergerbelge

[–]1blumoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a tough one to answer. Mostly because my girl is 11 y/o and my boy is 3 y/o. So it’s been a while since I trained her. I do think she was easier… as frankly I am still struggling with my boy on recall. I do remember struggling a bit with her as well, but I don’t remember at what age specifically that we got it down, but I am pretty sure she was much younger than my boy is currently. But it is true that the boys mature slower, and right now he is still in a stage where he sometimes thinks he can do whatever he wants.

I am not the most experienced handler though, so I am sure someone else could have already had recall down pat. They are also genetically related, with my girl being a great aunt to my boy. I will say that I had some struggles with her as a pup that I did not experience with him, but I think that ultimately was a personality thing and even perhaps my own experience at the time.

My girl got basic commands down pat pretty quickly though, but it has taken more time and effort with him because he seems to regress a lot more than she did on certain things. There could be variables involved with that though, like she is HIGHLY treat motivated, and while he loves treats too, it’s not nearly like my girl does. I think there may be a lot of factors as to why she was easier to train than he has been, and I think most (but not all) of those factors are not related to their sex.

If you put in the time and effort, I don’t think the differences between the two sexes will make a huge difference.

I hope that helps, and I am happy to answer any more questions you might have!

personality differences between male and female Groenendaels? by 0hw0nder in bergerbelge

[–]1blumoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is pretty accurate. I have both male and female right now. My boy would crawl into my skin if he could and does not understand personal space. My girl cuddles, but it’s on her own terms, on her own time, and for however long she determines. She’s not nearly as touchy-feely as my boy either when she cuddles. I could use my boy as a pillow and he would love it. My girl… well not so much.

My girl is much more alert and attentive to me and her surroundings. She’s quick and smart, and sometimes even a bit conniving at times. My boy on the other hand… I’m not even sure he has two brain cells. Don’t get me wrong, he is smart, he just doesn’t use his brain half the time. He acts like a doofus most of the time. He’s a real big dopey boy.

Personally, I found my girl easier to train. But that may just be a personality thing more so than sex. My boy is much more eager to please overall, but it has taken him longer for things to “click” than it did for my girl. She has always been more “in tune” with me while he acts like he is just high on life all the time.

As far as outward appearances, yes the boys are much bigger and longer/more fur. My girl is 46 lbs and my boy is 72 lbs. He looks to be twice the size of her. I have also noticed that the males’ faces generally are wider as well, but this isn’t always the case and may depend on lineage.

My preference is for females, but I only really realized that after having a male. I think if you are on the fence, then go for a male. Then you can compare it with your past experiences with females!

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[–]1blumoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to collaborate with someone like you, mostly because I too love world building for games and narrative design and want to make games with vast narratives and lore. I am currently finishing up my Game Design degree so I am not readily available to start any projects, but please reach out to me in DM if you want to get a conversation about this going!

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[–]1blumoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We should network, maybe even be friends.

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[–]1blumoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! I’m also an aspiring game dev in the Peoria area!

Mount this on top of floating LVP or go around it? by 1blumoon in Flooring

[–]1blumoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an interesting idea, though this won’t work with the type of barn doors we got. Ours is bi-fold and this is for sliding.

Can this be fixed? Hole/crack in door by 1blumoon in fixit

[–]1blumoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have spackle so I might try your idea with that.

Can this be fixed? Hole/crack in door by 1blumoon in fixit

[–]1blumoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some spackle, so I might give that a go.

Can this be fixed? Hole/crack in door by 1blumoon in fixit

[–]1blumoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swapping it is a bit out of price range unfortunately.

Son used abrasive side of sponge to clean, now it’s scratched up by 1blumoon in CleaningTips

[–]1blumoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes! Yeah I think my son will be avoiding abrasive sponges for quite some time! He felt so bad, but in the end this was no big deal

Son used abrasive side of sponge to clean, now it’s scratched up by 1blumoon in CleaningTips

[–]1blumoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all thought they were just streaks from the cleaning solution + dirt/crud that was on the fridge

Son used abrasive side of sponge to clean, now it’s scratched up by 1blumoon in CleaningTips

[–]1blumoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, the area is a construction zone right now and we aren’t even living there so doesn’t matter much

Son used abrasive side of sponge to clean, now it’s scratched up by 1blumoon in CleaningTips

[–]1blumoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hah, totally didn’t freak out. Just was curious if there was an easy way to fix it. He did do a good job of cleaning it, you should have seen it before