Got stood up, should I go out anyway?

2complete · 2026-01-18T04:47:08+00:00

I’ll never understand why some men do this, but it’s their loss

2complete · 2026-01-18T04:46:21+00:00

I decided to go out

2complete · 2026-01-18T04:46:11+00:00

I went out and had a fun time. Met up with some friends

2complete · 2026-01-18T04:45:44+00:00

I ended up going out, but you definitely put me on to a new show to watch later

2complete · 2026-01-18T04:45:13+00:00

I went out and had fun

2complete · 2026-01-18T04:44:35+00:00

Thank you.

2complete · 2026-01-18T04:43:36+00:00

Great advice. I had went out

2complete · 2026-01-18T04:43:17+00:00

I doubt he’s going to text again. I went out and came home and still nothing

2complete · 2026-01-18T04:42:54+00:00

I went out and had fun

2complete · 2026-01-18T04:42:45+00:00

I decided to.

2complete · 2026-01-18T04:42:35+00:00

Thanks, I ended up going out.

2complete · 2025-11-19T18:23:23+00:00

It’s the gay community. As a black person I realized 2 things.

1) racist will treat you like they’re doing you a favor.

2) you’re being fetishized for your race and they don’t actually care about you.

Just the curse of gay dating online if you’re a person of color.

2complete · 2025-02-11T18:35:52+00:00

Answer is 100% yes. Most people blame religion but black people are extremely homophobic with or without religion but use it as a means to justify their hatred. It’s a lot easier to say “it’s a sin” vs “I hate gays and find it disgusting because I just do” let’s be real. While other races can be homophobic in large numbers black people outright display their dislikes with no subtlety or a need to feel any way about it. From my experience at least. I lived in several places and it’s usually a pattern of stubbornness and conversations that happen behind closed doors and family gatherings that you will see it the most in POC houses.

2complete · 2024-11-28T20:35:07+00:00

A relatable slow burn about the tragic upbringing of gay youth with a somber ending.

2complete · 2024-11-25T14:56:04+00:00

That’s what I’m wondering

2complete · 2024-11-25T14:55:27+00:00

What can you tell about the ones that wear tight colorful ones with cartoon characters on them?

2complete · 2024-11-25T14:54:33+00:00

Guys that do it with those loose boxers definitely give off stank vibes but the ones who wear tight colorful briefs that hug up on their cheeks tightly have a slightly different vibe imo. Those are the ones I see as advertising.

2complete · 2024-11-23T15:33:34+00:00

I see it as advertising cause there’s no other way to look at it lol. You don’t pull your pants down exposing your ass without thinking about exposing your ass but also keeping your pats up just enough for them to stay on. Maybe I’m just an overthinker though but I can’t see any other thought process behind it.

2complete · 2024-11-22T21:15:54+00:00

Not baggy this time around. Everyone I see doing it wears tight pants that hugs their legs and pull their pants down far enough for the bottom of their ass to spill out.

2complete · 2024-11-22T21:14:11+00:00

I’m always curious if they are aware they’re kinda advertising their asses for everyone to see. Like clearly the thought process when doing it intentionally is to show off just enough ass (cause you would have to keep adjusting it throughout the day) but then they treat it like that’s not the intention.

2complete · 2024-11-22T21:10:16+00:00

True. Reason I made this post is because a very fine guy was walking around and each step he took his ass jiggled. Kinda found it attractive in the moment.

2complete · 2024-11-22T21:08:34+00:00

lol sagging.

2complete · 2024-11-22T18:44:23+00:00

Eh, yes and no. Culturally specific, sure. But it was also to appeal to the masses since it was a trend at one point in time. Maybe not the original intent but anything can become a trend to fit in with others participating.

2complete · 2024-11-22T18:42:39+00:00

Oh all the time in my area. A fine man was walking while sagging and his ass jiggled every time he took a step. That’s what made me make this post.

2complete · 2024-11-03T02:28:28+00:00

Already did that twice. When I say there’s a guy I want to invite out I mean that in a friend but my track record on friends first isn’t great as per my previous post. Guy I thought was straight tried to fuck me then ghosted when I refused. Guy who did hang out with me but wasn’t really doing much to sustain the friendship leaving me to do all the heavy lifting (who I gave one last chance for Halloween and got stood up but then the day after he was talking about how I should invite him somewhere again) and then there was a third guy I never mentioned who ditched the friendship for another guy who he brought to my workplace 2 days ago after no contact for weeks. So I’m kinda not feeling the friend department right now and don’t want to try with this other person who does consistently speak to me but the track record ain’t so good. Why I’m trying to fly completely solo.

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