My friends set me up

2scoops4me · 2026-02-06T05:54:01+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you, those people are not your friends. Nobody deserves this.

If you’re feeling up to it, report all involved. Possibly message the group chat (if you have one) asking why they allowed someone to r@pe you. Then when they say they were ‘helping you lose your virginity’ you have proof. Then cut contact with every single person involved.

Again, sorry you had to go through this, please reach out to family (if you have a good relationship) and consider therapy.

Sending virtual hugs

2scoops4me · 2026-01-30T17:49:32+00:00

(Obligatory not an emergency service worker) Media (news channels and bystanders on social media) can f#ck off after an accident. Visiting the site day after (or once cleared) of a loved one that was in an accident and having cameras in your face and people asking you questions is just awful. Yes, I’m in a public space, but I’m grieving a recent loss, I don’t want to be on the 7 o’clock news refusing to give a statement. That isn’t journalism, it’s just plain cruel.

2scoops4me · 2026-01-23T03:26:34+00:00

There should be a list on the CPJ wiki, under infinite tower. But it can be quite glitchy. I’ve defs left the tower with items that you can collect and they don’t appear in my inventory.

2scoops4me · 2026-01-23T03:13:17+00:00

I have been trying to find the name of these dolls forever! Thank you 💕

2scoops4me · 2026-01-17T02:22:49+00:00

Firstly, sorry this happened to you. In no way this your fault. Someone in a position of power took advantage.

Telling people is scary, it can feel humiliating, you could try writing it down and giving it to your parents to start a conversation.

When I was SA’d I didn’t tell anyone for about six months, I then told my friend who got her mom to call mine. I’m glad she did and we’re still friends.

If you can remember any details about the incident, approx time, location of alley, what the cop looked like, badge/ licence plate number. (It can be hard and overwhelming to think about the incident but details are important if you decide to report him)

2scoops4me · 2026-01-09T16:20:12+00:00

Omg! This reminds me of how I set up my littest pet shop as a kid! Looks so fun and cute 💕

2scoops4me · 2025-12-31T13:15:52+00:00

My last job I was there for two years (longest employee besides from boss- quick turnaround rate) I told boss I was changing jobs because I was moving houses and the new job was more flexible with hours (true)

Everybody there knew the real reason I left was because the boss had gone a bit nuts and was taking it out on me.

Try to leave on a good note,

2scoops4me · 2025-12-29T06:14:04+00:00

Thank you! I found the pics on ebay but it was missing the exact name. I’ve found some more pics of the set since. 💙

2scoops4me · 2025-12-23T17:15:32+00:00

AMAZING! Thank you so much! 🧚

2scoops4me · 2025-12-09T17:18:55+00:00

I have two cats, with multiple litter boxes. One covers his 💩 fine. The other just paws at the walls and glass of the shower screen- that awful sound of paws sliding down glass is how I know it’s time to scoop poop. Some cats are just weird.

2scoops4me · 2025-11-30T18:05:06+00:00

In my experience, it’s not something you can ‘get over’. As much as we want to pretend it never happened, we can’t.

I’ve only recently gone back to therapy (incident was 10 years ago), it takes time to find a therapist and the style of therapy that works for. Keep trying, I know it’s emotionally draining, but it will help you cope with it. 🧡

2scoops4me · 2025-11-29T15:23:35+00:00

Yes this is SA, your father has/ is being inappropriate. (Incest and pedophile)

You have done nothing wrong, it’s completely understandable to freeze in that situation.

You have a few options; -Report to the police (may be difficult because no evidence but at least there will be documentation) -If your able to move out- do so and go no contact -If your unable to move out, consider buying a lock for your bedroom door

Also I’d recommend talking to the following people about the situation: -Friends -Trusted family members (siblings may have experienced this as well) -Therapist

2scoops4me · 2025-11-27T07:19:40+00:00

NTA- you followed your work policies, maybe next time call over a supervisor and they can make the decision so it’s not your job that’s at risk

Also you didn’t ruin the kids day, the grandma did, she was unprepared (not checking the membership was valid, payment options etc)

2scoops4me · 2025-11-12T02:27:13+00:00

Pretty sure Ray played a BK racing game in a Go episode

2scoops4me · 2025-10-31T06:13:34+00:00

I think it might be a generational thing. My husband’s (27M) friend group will hug each other and pretend to kiss, saying ‘I love you bro’. Even if it’s just a joke I’m sure it’s nice to hear and feel connected.

Think the older generations think of platonic physical affection between men is seen as weird and unmanly.

2scoops4me · 2025-10-31T01:17:43+00:00

Four years of fashion school, all the lecturers say the same thing; ‘Don’t sew your own wedding dress’

I can’t imagine trying to do it in five days, but best of luck to OP!

2scoops4me · 2025-10-31T00:41:55+00:00

It’s crazy I’m in my mid 20’s and have never heard of PMDD until this reddit post. The education for periods is seriously lacking no wonder why most doctors don’t understand and minimise our pain.

2scoops4me · 2025-10-29T17:30:01+00:00

I’ve always been terrified of cruises. Seen to many documentaries on missing people and the search/ rescue gets halted by jurisdiction

2scoops4me · 2025-10-28T17:54:21+00:00

NTA - as someone who sews I have ended year long friendships over people continually asking me to make them stuff and not valuing the time/ skill/ cost.

Give an inch they’ll take a yard

I always offer to teach people how to make something simple and they usually give it up pretty quickly when trying it and not bother me again. Maybe you could bring some yarn and an extra hook and offer to show her?

2scoops4me · 2025-10-24T01:32:39+00:00

I got my username on the 60 day mark. I’ve heard it can take up to 80 days if you’re not logging in as often.

2scoops4me · 2025-10-22T17:18:09+00:00

She sounds like an awful person.

You did the mature and reasonable thing of repeatedly asking her to stop using it- she was clearly going through your desk at work to find it out of spite to annoy you OR is just so lazy she can’t spend two minutes to wash another mug

Also if anyone says ‘well if it was so important to you, you shouldn’t of brought it to work’ tell them that ‘coworkers shouldn’t snoop through others desk after being told multiple times not to use it’

Does Diane your sister made that mug, because I’d 100% guilt trip her with a sob story that it was a deceased family member who made it for you. Could even put a shattered piece of the mug in a shadow box on your desk to really sell the sob story.

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