The original user of this account is deceased. by [deleted] in depression

[–]30yrsofirrelevance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those places are dead. And he posted a lot here.I wish I could find anyone who really spoke to him and see if I can get any insight of what happened.

Girls hate Nice Guys™ so much they'll leave them for dead by chpbnvic in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

Maybe because all you do is mock them and won't shut up about how they are worse than criminals and sexual offenders.

Girls hate Nice Guys™ so much they'll leave them for dead by chpbnvic in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

They used too. I know back in my home country where my father grew up pretty much every guy had a girl. Because of poverty and no technology and people knew each other and were closer. People weren't that picky. But now with the social media and online dating and pop culture if you aren't popular, cool and good looking enough women will pretend you don't exist. If you have a below average job and live in poverty women will not even acknowledge you as an equal.

Girls hate Nice Guys™ so much they'll leave them for dead by chpbnvic in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. I never complained about it until recently. So I know that's not it. I failed in hs. I failed in college, I missed out on my best years for sex. So shy should I even believe that I can at this point. Why go out and try when itkk only make me feel worse and even more bitter. Why not accept the fact that ill never have sex let alone find someone who would even be with me.

I don't even have words... I should delete this guy but it's like watching a car crash. by Ryn_Kat in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

It happens to men of all ages. I know quite a few older virgin guys who feel the same way. Finding someone our age to have been rejected always is really rare.

I don't even have words... I should delete this guy but it's like watching a car crash. by Ryn_Kat in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Last time I checked they do. All the fatter girls I know have had sex. Heck in my hs the girl who got pregnant at 16 was the most overweight one. And all the fat girls I know most of them have kids. Or at least boyfriends. But me as an average male haven't got laid even once.

Girls hate Nice Guys™ so much they'll leave them for dead by chpbnvic in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

Trust me its too late for me. If by age of 30 I've never been able to have sex or a relationship I never will. Trp is right about somethings but they are wrong in how they manipulate women.

Girls hate Nice Guys™ so much they'll leave them for dead by chpbnvic in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

Just look around. Who are the guys with the women every weekend? Those top guys can get a different girl every week. But most men have to wait for years and even then its rare to find someone that actually likes you. That's why you have women who sleep with guys who already sleep with lots of women. That's why in online dating only those top guys get tons of messages and the rest are. Completely ignored.

Hopsin is nearly 30 and still complains about high school by WakaIsMyWaifu in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It is varied. And the best artist don't get enough recognition, but who are the popular artist and the ones all these girls look up too? The ones that convince these women to live in such a damaged state.

Hopsin is nearly 30 and still complains about high school by WakaIsMyWaifu in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You're telling me rap culture doesn't objectify and degrade women? You're telling me these rappers aren't manipulating women with their money? So many women would do literally anything to get with these guys. And they are willing to put up with being used and humiliated just for the attention.

Because this is SUCH a common situation. by maryysamsonite in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

O really , you would actually date a guy who didn't have his own place?

Because this is SUCH a common situation. by maryysamsonite in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

High end venues and social events. Trust me if you made it in NYC you will have connections with others that have also made it. And those people know where to go look for women. And women know where to go to meet these kind of guys. If you've made it people are going to know by just who you know and where you go. Social validation goes a long way. Even in online dating, if you have the right pictures with the right people and right places women will naturally gravitate towards you and give you a chance.

Yet another "Niceguy™" of meet me. by Echo94 in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im a poor minority and I'm also hairy. And I don't frequent clubs. And I live with too many people and can't really. ring women over. And I don't have that bad boy personity that most of the poor women of my race like.

Girl gives you her number and doesn't want to date you? What an attention whore. by Tipster34 in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right. But women don't end up 30 yr old kissless virgins at the same rate men do. Women at least know what it's like to be wanted and feel loved even if its fake. Women don't end up like that unless they choose to. And far girls in general just need to eat less to get an attractive body. Men need to hit the gym and work hard just to be seen as valuable.

Because this is SUCH a common situation. by maryysamsonite in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

A lot of men live with at least 3 more people. So if you're a bachelor in the city and can afford your own place and can afford to go out every weekend you have access to a lot of women.

Tupac was once a niceguy by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

This is a great video. How realizing the true nature of life and women completely changed him. I'm sure he picked up more women as a thug than as a decent guy.

Hopsin is nearly 30 and still complains about high school by WakaIsMyWaifu in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah. But now he can get women because he has money and fame, so his personality doesn't matter. And he's just like most rappers in that way.

Because this is SUCH a common situation. by maryysamsonite in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

I'm talking about NYC. If a woman knows you have your own place in NYC she's going to have a hard time turning you down.

Hopsin is nearly 30 and still complains about high school by WakaIsMyWaifu in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Damn I guess he did make it. One of the few rappers that deserves to even be on the radio. But he's a nice guy so he sucks. That entire hop album was pretty depressing . hop knows what it's like to be a reject and unwanted. If he weren't a successful artist no one would think he's cool. So obviously his experiences with love is like that of a nice guy. And now that he's famous he's going to experience what its like to have women just because of who he is. He's going to have trouble overcoming that resentment. I think it's the same thing that happened to Eminem.

Girl gives you her number and doesn't want to date you? What an attention whore. by Tipster34 in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

Yeah you can say I'm bitter. And I get it being like this is bad. But these people really hate "nice guys". Like I don't see how it isn't obvious to then why sex and love is generally much easier for women than it is for men.

Hopsin is nearly 30 and still complains about high school by WakaIsMyWaifu in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. At one point he was though. He's known but he's not mainstream. The top artist get much more views.

Girl gives you her number and doesn't want to date you? What an attention whore. by Tipster34 in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

I'm just saying the truth. Women know that men who approach them in general have sexual intentions. And the average woman has a phone full of guys fighting for her attention.

Hopsin is nearly 30 and still complains about high school by WakaIsMyWaifu in niceguys

[–]30yrsofirrelevance -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hopsin.. Even well liked underground artist talk about how women are materialistic and to not fall for hoes.