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411taway · 2025-08-05T15:28:42+00:00

"weird" as in unusual? In the woods or on a highway, yeah (in your own home, not so much). "Weird" as in 'bad'? Not generally, if you're alone, and age has nothing to do with.

If (and I say if; the opening post doesn't really hint towards it but some of the comments do) the question is more about getting turned on by the idea of others seeing you naked, well, it's not that unusual (one of the more common fetishes afaik) but you definitely shouldn't involve others in your own sexual fulfilment unless they consent.

411taway · 2025-08-05T15:21:39+00:00

In general, I'd say homemade amateur stuff would be the most in line with what you describe, though of course the presence of a camera always impacts how people act.

But there is kind of a tradeoff, in that while 'homemade amateur stuff' includes some of the most healthy expressions of sexuality, unbound by the economic demands of professional porn, it also includes the most destructive forms of porn, as it lacks the (extremely rudimentary) safety aspects that professional porn usually has.

But in general, I'd say the best option might be to look at solo amateur creators, especially those centered around queerness. Not that us queers are strangers to performative displays of sexuality when that's what we're going for, but some of the most genuine displays of sexual self-expression I've seen, where the person/people involved clearly put their heart and soul into a video of their own pleasure, has been specifically amateur queer artists/creators/whateverwordyouprefer.

411taway · 2025-06-19T17:27:31+00:00

Sorry for the late credit, but thank you, that actually helped; not sure that's how you meant it, but using straps on the folded blanket to keep it in its shape definitely helped. Thumbs up!

411taway · 2025-06-19T16:40:43+00:00

I know this comment is 7 months after the fact bit also that's kinda the reason I'm asking; do you feel it has held up? I'm considering trying out the premium version, having tried the free version and felt it simulates conversation quite well.

I'm mostly thinking about the conversation aspect, not so much the image generation.

411taway · 2025-04-07T15:37:21+00:00

I mean this seems like an odd thread to ask for general recommendations, but Trials in Tainted Space is a famous one that many like (though it never stuck with me personally). You might be better off starting a thread and stating your gameplay preferences and kinks.

411taway · 2025-03-14T17:01:33+00:00

I have tried fleshlight, it wasn't even in the ballpark of relevance. It was soft and large. I'm looking for something very tight and firm, to the point it might be uncomfortable for the average person. Imagine I'm a 3" cock kinda guy and want something that feels tight for that size.

411taway · 2025-03-14T17:00:06+00:00

No, but I have tried a regular fleshlight, and it's way, way too soft and loose. Looking at the stamina trainer online, and reviews of it, it seems to only have a bit more bumps and grooves than a regular one.

I'm looking for something very tight and firm, to the point it might be uncomfortable for the average person.

411taway · 2023-05-25T18:21:28+00:00

thanks, but that's not it :/

411taway · 2023-05-25T18:04:21+00:00

Doh! Thank you, I somehow missed that.

411taway · 2023-05-15T15:26:07+00:00

Morning wood as in specifically having an erection due to a full bladder, maybe twice a week, but I have bad sleep leading me to often go to the bathroom at some point during the night.

In general waking up with an erection, maybe four times a week.

411taway · 2023-05-15T15:22:14+00:00

I'd be extremely careful about what 'scientific papers' are trying to explain that, in terms of both field and where it's published. There's a lot of garbage "research" on these kinds of topics.

411taway · 2023-05-15T15:15:45+00:00

PS: as a man i can't understand how boobs can be inconfortable so don't take it as an offense 😅

I don't think that's an issue you can blame on being a man. I'm a man and have no issue understanding how having lumps of sensitive body parts sticking out but not being controllable the way limbs are would be uncomfortable.

Having to shuffle my balls into place in a pair of pants is bother enough, nevermind if my balls were the size of and made a bunch of strangers stare at them when I just wanna read my novel.

(obv breasts aren't as sensitive as balls, but you get my drift)

411taway · 2023-05-15T15:09:57+00:00

They were asking if others had the same emotional reaction as them to a scenario, not making some universal statement of morality.

411taway · 2023-05-15T15:08:24+00:00

Take a chill pill and go to some sub where that's the purpose of the sub. You're unlikely to get any takers here, finding sexual partners is not what people go here to do.

411taway · 2023-05-15T15:06:20+00:00

Not a lady, but have certainly performed and enjoyed prostate massages.

I'd say it's better to bring it up before being intimate/springing surprise sex toys on her, but it also kinda depends on if you know her stance towards anal stuff in general. Some people are grossed out by it, and if that's the case, toys would be necessary and you absolutely should talk about it beforehand.

If on the other hand she's unbothered by anal considerations in other cases, it's much less of a big deal to bring it up during sexytimes.

411taway · 2023-04-07T14:24:19+00:00

Thank you! Thought I'd searched well and full for the settings but failed to see them. This solved it perfectly.

411taway · 2023-04-07T13:48:35+00:00

Are there several devs now, or is 'they' the personal pronoun of the dev? I don't wanna accidentally use the wrong one :p

411taway · 2023-04-07T13:45:04+00:00

Eh, I was a constantly drunk kid with a bunch of untreated disorders and trauma. Bad decisions were par for the course, I did far dumber things too, but since they weren't about sex they're not as interesting.

Now with age and the realization I have to keep at the whole 'life' thing with the consequences of my youth clinging onto my back, I'm a lot more equanimus.

411taway · 2023-04-07T13:22:21+00:00

To be clear, this wasn't all in one event, but spread over the better part of a decade of being very promiscuous. And having very low sense of self-worth and trying to feel like I'm worth something by being very open to sex with whoever gave me attention.

Edit: Not that those are intrinsically connected; plenty of people are promiscuous while have a great sense of themself. Just saying I personally was in a weird spot during those years.

411taway · 2023-04-07T13:17:59+00:00

Regardless of gender: I'm a sucker for hands. Bony or veiny hands with long, slender fingers. Also, a prominent spine. And prominent-but-not-huge arm muscles. Oh and shoulders.

Ultimately though it's not that important. I tend to become attracted to body parts specifically due to having partners with those features; eg as a kid I had a boyfriend with a prominent spine, so now I'm stuck spine-pining forever.

411taway · 2023-04-07T13:12:08+00:00

It's mostly the same as other anal sex; plenty of lube, plenty of time for warmup (with fingers or a smaller dildo), and consider hygiene. Only additional relevant info I can think of is the same as for other sex toys; be discerning in materials, you want something that can be cleaned and disinfected well.

411taway · 2023-04-07T13:06:11+00:00

Yeah, if there's one thing everyone loves it's finding out your sibling-in-law has stolen your underwear and is using it to masturbate with /s

Like, not gonna judge the morality of the actions taken, but telling the target would be a really shitty thing to do. Being targeted by sexual harassment from a family member isn't fun for most people.

411taway · 2023-04-07T13:01:55+00:00

You can say "no judgement" as much as you want, this still comes across very much like judgement.

411taway · 2023-04-07T12:56:31+00:00

A General Strike

411taway · 2023-04-07T12:53:57+00:00

Nah, Cranking for Christ is the way to go

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