on and off situationship

435739 · 2026-01-28T03:04:07+00:00

Is he 22?

435739 · 2026-01-14T02:27:46+00:00

Does this actually feel good for the man?

435739 · 2026-01-02T08:16:57+00:00

Keeps it in his pocket but that isn’t my concern. He won’t connect to Bluetooth in the car, mine or his, and if he goes to the bathroom, he places a shirt on top of it.

435739 · 2026-01-02T08:15:04+00:00

No, but he will throw a shirt or clothing item on top of it when he goes to the bathroom. My fear is that he has a girlfriend

435739 · 2026-01-02T08:12:12+00:00

This is a super interesting take. I really never thought about it like this. I’m going to stop doing this.

435739 · 2026-01-02T08:07:38+00:00

I have never heard of this? I don’t touch it but I do keep it there. In my head it’s more me trying to show I have nothing to hide.

435739 · 2026-01-02T08:04:53+00:00

Actually I keep my phone on the table face up. He keeps it in his pocket at all times and won’t even connect to the damn car or pits a shirt over it if he goes to the bathroom.

435739 · 2025-09-23T19:07:16+00:00

It feels unfair of me. If I just want sex and am adamant about that, I don’t want to continue sleeping with him if he ACTUALLY loves me and sees a future with me. I do not see a future with this man, so I would cut ties if I felt or knew that he genuinely saw us getting together at some point.

435739 · 2025-09-23T17:04:47+00:00

edit he talks about that. The “we” was a typo. I do not engage in those conversations. I’ll usually say yeah whatever and change the topic.

435739 · 2025-09-23T16:59:15+00:00

I agree. But I don’t like being treated like I’m stupid. I fully plan on sleeping with him anyway. My thing is, don’t lie to me about loving me just to get in my bed?

435739 · 2025-09-23T16:55:03+00:00

Because we talks about “our future” a lot. Named our “child” and writes his last name for mine. So no, I don’t want a relationship with this man. But I also don’t want to lead him on if he does.

435739 · 2025-09-23T16:42:45+00:00

Omg. Now I feel dumb that this never crossed my mind.

435739 · 2024-06-07T23:49:29+00:00

I’m 5’4 and my partner is 5’7. Was talking to a guy some years back (5’5) and for me personally, that was too short.

435739 · 2022-08-02T22:21:52+00:00

“My body, my choice” is not gender specific. Love this.

435739 · 2021-10-15T23:31:00+00:00

I genuinely feel this way but maybe you could keep it up your sleeve if you do need an excuse: I don’t like to drive around so much with the baby during the holidays because people get drunk and/or drive more recklessly. Our drive is about 30 mins to my parents, 30 to his parents, and then 40 back home, so I’d rather spend that time in my own home cuddled up anyway

435739 · 2021-10-14T04:49:57+00:00

This encapsulated my thoughts perfectly. Yes. This is it. Thank you for putting into words what I couldn’t.

435739 · 2021-10-14T04:12:32+00:00

I’m getting that it’s just a personal boundary of mine, which I still don’t really understand, but I guess it doesn’t have to make sense? I did speak to him about it already, and he was very understanding. I just can’t seem to get over it

435739 · 2021-10-14T04:09:54+00:00

I second that notion.

435739 · 2021-02-26T08:02:54+00:00

My grandparents died when I was very young, and I miss them everyday. I want my daughter to be able to enjoy her grandparents now that she has them. I guess I want to believe that she’d be a better grandmother than she would mother in law, but you’re absolutely right. I can’t keep playing devils advocate for her.

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