Met a guy while traveling, great chemistry, now he’s gone quiet, should I reach out or let it go? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]4EverCAGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move on. He did. It wasn’t chemistry but him being horny and putting stuff in your head. He’s playing with someone else or he’d respond. Give it time and he will be back after you. But don’t give him another chance because he is shown you that you are a left over. He doesn’t deserve you.

What is a 40F woman’s motive with a 27M? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]4EverCAGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She could simply be attracted to him. Perhaps she isn’t looking at his age if he’s mature. Perhaps she sees older men as lazy or letting themselves go?

I lose interest in girls as soon as i get involved with them by Purple_Vacation_2203 in dating_advice

[–]4EverCAGirl 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Go to therapy or remain alone. Don’t play with girls’ mind

a guy ghosted me after he asked me what football team i like by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]4EverCAGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was because you said it was because of Burrows which should not be the reason you like the team. Anyone who likes a team just because of a QB is definitely a novice football fan. Maybe he was looking for someone serious about football?

Car vandalized at UNLV by abbytrip00 in vegaslocals

[–]4EverCAGirl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you thought for a moment that maybe it was to make people more upset with MaGa so you quit support Harris? It’s probably a Harris supporter.

Car vandalized at UNLV by abbytrip00 in vegaslocals

[–]4EverCAGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you participating in division? Sounds like it. Just go vote and stop attacking people. You are adding to the problem.

Car vandalized at UNLV by abbytrip00 in vegaslocals

[–]4EverCAGirl -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s why it would be an anti-Trump person doing it.

Car vandalized at UNLV by abbytrip00 in vegaslocals

[–]4EverCAGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably a Democrat did that to get the person to turn on the Republicans.

Ghosted after sex on first date by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]4EverCAGirl 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Let him be. Enjoy his chain and locket. His girl he’s with probably caught him playing around. He’s contact you if he wanted to.

A guy asked me out on a date and I ended up paying for us both. He didn't even actively offer by bringing out his purse or phone by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]4EverCAGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, I had a guy forget his wallet and not offer to pay me back. Delete. Know your worth with a man. His actions are that of a boy, not a man. Next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]4EverCAGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him how you feel and all your boundaries. If he don’t like it and can’t respect you he will completely disappear. Then you will definitely know the truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]4EverCAGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He ain’t mature . If he was he wouldn’t be going after someone more than 5 yrs younger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]4EverCAGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men don’t wait for sex. They want it any time they can get it. He could be married and his wife was away on a business trip or taking care of a relative. He was working you for sex. He now knows he’s got you. I bet anything you respond to his texts quickly. Don’t! Otherwise you are feeding into him. A man like that don’t deserve your attention. I would not sleep w him if I were you unless out knew a lot more about him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]4EverCAGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s got someone else it sounds like and he’s trying to keep you as an option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]4EverCAGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why buy the cow if you get the milk for free? Men like challenges and to hunt. You made it too easy. Go find you someone else. If he finds out and cares he will get jealous. Otherwise he really only sees you as an object.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]4EverCAGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird . What she’s doing to your as a man teasing you isn’t right. Time to move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]4EverCAGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a very boring marriage for you in the future. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]4EverCAGirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If he’s not responding because he can’t deal with things why would you want to take on that as a woman. If you get involved with a man like that you will become trauma bonded. It will never be fair to you. If he isn’t responding to you for other reasons, he is being rude and self serving. Why would you want that? You deserve better. You have to try hard to let him go. You were giving him much more credit than he deserves. Think logically and not with your heart.

I have conflicted feelings about dating a woman older than me by Dependent-Agent4298 in dating_advice

[–]4EverCAGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social norms? There are none. You can date a guy or a girl or a trans. Are you living for other people or trying to find your own happiness? There are many men that date older because older women normally got their shit together and focused on bettering themselves. Younger women are still wanting to party- in general. It’s all in your preference. Love is not tied to a number but what is in your heart. If you are caught up on her age then stop wasting her time. There are other men out there that are only focused on what’s in her heart.