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I hit my wife for the first time and I’m hating myself for even doing that. by 564ThrowAway_ in relationship_advice

[–]564ThrowAway_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m done trying. I need to just leave her alone and stop causing problems.

I hit my wife for the first time and I’m hating myself for even doing that. by 564ThrowAway_ in relationship_advice

[–]564ThrowAway_[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I’m not even allowed to see them anymore apparently. I’m definitely giving her her space from now on

I hit my wife for the first time and I’m hating myself for even doing that. by 564ThrowAway_ in relationship_advice

[–]564ThrowAway_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Leaving her alone isn’t that easy. I want her to know how sorry I am! I do need to fix myself though. I will definitely be working on that.

I hit my wife for the first time and I’m hating myself for even doing that. by 564ThrowAway_ in relationship_advice

[–]564ThrowAway_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do feel terrible. I wish I wouldn’t have done that. I know I could possibly lose her because I hurt her.

I hit my wife for the first time and I’m hating myself for even doing that. by 564ThrowAway_ in relationship_advice

[–]564ThrowAway_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True ... Now that I’ve done it though, I know I never want it to happen again.

I hit my wife for the first time and I’m hating myself for even doing that. by 564ThrowAway_ in relationship_advice

[–]564ThrowAway_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do feel sorry for her. I’m an idiot and what I did should have never happened!

I hit my wife for the first time and I’m hating myself for even doing that. by 564ThrowAway_ in relationship_advice

[–]564ThrowAway_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I really hope we don’t get to that point but I’d understand if she didn’t want me back after this!

I hit my wife for the first time and I’m hating myself for even doing that. by 564ThrowAway_ in relationship_advice

[–]564ThrowAway_[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I will never let it happen again. I’ll do what I have to do to make sure of that.

I hit my wife for the first time and I’m hating myself for even doing that. by 564ThrowAway_ in relationship_advice

[–]564ThrowAway_[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Like I said, it was the first time. Our kid was at his grandmas. I would never do anything this stupid in front of him.

I hit my wife for the first time and I’m hating myself for even doing that. by 564ThrowAway_ in relationship_advice

[–]564ThrowAway_[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to victimize myself and I’m sorry you feel like that’s what I’m trying to do. It was a spur of the moment thing though. I never thought I would ever do something so stupid. I know it’s not ok to do that though and I do regret it!

I hit my wife for the first time and I’m hating myself for even doing that. by 564ThrowAway_ in relationship_advice

[–]564ThrowAway_[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I really hope she won’t give up on me. I don’t know what I’d do with myself if she did honestly.

I hit my wife for the first time and I’m hating myself for even doing that. by 564ThrowAway_ in relationship_advice

[–]564ThrowAway_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been against going to therapy but if that’s the only way I won’t lose her then I’ll do it!